Well, you are all correct, of course. I won't list everything he's stolen from me the last couple years: several big things, like my bicycle and my really good snowblower - and little stuff, like kitchen items I've had for decades and just miss. It all goes to needles. Was a normal guy, no bad childhood to blame. Just a bad addict whom my brother has seen thru detox and recovery twice that I know of. The kid (no kid, he's almost 30) is an absolute thug and I don't like the position I'm in. Have been working hard to change it. My room has an exterior door and lock that I absolutely keep locked. And yes, I've been very afraid sometimes when strangers come to the house in the night. My brother is usually very smart, tough, and pretty hard-core about things - but this one has him beat. He works nights and we do have cameras now, but all that does is show his son taking things away - which he always denies doing.
Appreciate your comments more than I can say; I've hesitated to ever say anything. Just before the CV deal began I was getting ready to walk away and leave all that I have left (not that it's much). I was just here to help my brother out fixing yard and house stuff as he's helped me try to get on my feet from other real-life horrors. As a pragmatist I never thought it before - but talking here it seems I've been a bit of a frog in a pot and the water temp is getting critical.
Yes, I'm armed - and this situation is why I've worked hard to be fit and strong (not that that's any guarantee - but it's something). I must leave a state where I was born to be, but I do have grandchildren who I want near - means a move of 4,700 miles. CV has just added a lot of difficulty to it, but it looks like that's what I need to get busy and figure out.
Again, my apologies for thread drift; I just thought I should reply.