You are not a real prepper if:
1. You have not made peace with God.
2. You have allowed your health to deteriorate through bad choices or neglect.
3. You have not gotten out of debt.
4. You spend any significant amount of time non-constructively. (wasting time in solely "entertainment" pursuits)
5. You are so isolated you have no friends or "back-up".
6. You are utterly oblivious to any "political" or "economic" news.
7. You implicitly trust your doctors, your government, your teachers, your neighbors, your police, your employer, your bank.
8. You always view everything with optimism, certain that things will just somehow work out ok without worrying or "prepping."
9. You have no "plan B" ready if you can't proceed "business as usual" and life tosses obstacles to threaten your welfare.
10. You live in a state of utter dependency upon uninterrupted electric power, city water, cell phones, open available daily food supply markets, medical services, public transportation, a government check, gasoline availability, electric or natural gas for life protecting heat, public order and/or police to defend you.
11. You have nothing saved or "put back" for a "rainy day" or "hard times" as grandma used to say.
12. You think rotten teeth and B.O. are "bad", but see nothing disgusting, ugly or wrong about WILLFUL ignorance, thinking you only need to become informed about things that "interest" you, not how to cook, bake, do first aid, drive, use basic tools, do simple repairs, do basic wiring, plant a garden, sew, shoot, fish, and anything else you depend on others to do for you which you deliberately ignore opportunities to learn.
(BTW- By my own yardstick, I am not a "real prepper". Failed #2,4,5)