Siskiyoumom
Veteran Member
My dad had affairs, then met his soon to be Thai wife while deployed in 1966.
He flew back to Michigan, filed for divorce from my mom.
We were living in base housing in California.
Mom got the final divorce decree (she had no idea he had filed) and an eviction notice from base housing on the same day.
He was suppose to pay $250 ($50 per child), a month support for his five children with her. He never paid a penny. Ever.
She had no funds to pay for an attorney.
She did not qualify for his military pension even though they were married eighteen years.
They divorced before the legislature acted on protecting the spouses of military regards to pension protection.
Yes, folks do get get messed over in divorce settlements. Both the parents and children.
Thankfully as adults my dad and I mended our broken relationship. And for that I am ever so thankful.
He flew back to Michigan, filed for divorce from my mom.
We were living in base housing in California.
Mom got the final divorce decree (she had no idea he had filed) and an eviction notice from base housing on the same day.
He was suppose to pay $250 ($50 per child), a month support for his five children with her. He never paid a penny. Ever.
She had no funds to pay for an attorney.
She did not qualify for his military pension even though they were married eighteen years.
They divorced before the legislature acted on protecting the spouses of military regards to pension protection.
Yes, folks do get get messed over in divorce settlements. Both the parents and children.
Thankfully as adults my dad and I mended our broken relationship. And for that I am ever so thankful.