CHAT How is everyone feeling?

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
I am well, physically....tuesday and wednesday, i felt drugged....weak. Today, I had a panic attack. I've heard of them, but never experienced one. OMG....I thought I was going to die....really. 2 hours of my hands and feet tingling, I was dizzy and nauseated....I couldn't slow my breath down, heart pounding, every part of me shook uncontrollably, I cried like a damn baby....... My Grandson stayed with me. I told him not to call 911, to call my daughter, if I lost consciousness, there is NO way I would want to go to the hospital right now, .....at the 3 hour mark, I texted my daughters, they had me breathe into a paper bag, and wow, that helped me so much, who knew??? It still took another 2 hours for me to calm down......at this minute, I feel like I OVERDOSED on life, and I am still trembling inside! They say the schumann resonance is high, and we have a full moon coming....social media and the world is going flipping crazy....wish I had a bunker to crawl into.....it's tooooooo scary out there
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jward

passin' thru
Aww Fair :( I'm sorry you're having a bad time of it. ((hugs for you)) Thank goodness you have family so close by, I am sure that helps. They can certainly be frighting, but knowing what is going on is some help. Basic self care is also useful- some walking to release physical tension, eating well, staying hydrated, and getting enough rest help. Some find that learning the facts about what frightens them is a way to make the issues less scary, and to re-establish a sense of power and control over ones' environment, and one's self.

I like to recommend breathing slowly and deeply, light exercise, hot tea and warm hugs... Here's a list of things I grabbed off the internet, too, that may prove useful. One should always use their personal sense of well being as a guide to how much information they take in- when we have all this news amplified to the 9th degree, it is hard to stay detached and not be sucked in- but remember, they make their coin by selling you on the idea that all is awful and the sky is falling : you don't have to expose yourself to it nor fall for it. Even if times are rough...so what. :) Sky is gorgeous, breeze smells of sunshine & strawberries, & the people you love are ok, and right there, close enough to wrap your arms around. That is pretty wonderful stuff.

I would also mention that thyroid and other issues such as perimenopause often present with panic and anxiety, so it may be a good idea to get some blood work done if the condition persists.

Be good to yourself, we're all goin' to get through this <3

Panic attacks

Panic attacks are sudden, intense surges of fear, panic, or anxiety. They are overwhelming, and they have physical as well as emotional symptoms.
Many people with panic attacks may have difficulty breathing, sweat profusely, tremble, and feel their hearts pounding.
Some people will also experience chest pain and a feeling of detachment from reality or themselves during a panic attack, so they make think they’re having a heart attack. Others have reported feeling like they are having a stroke.
Panic attacks can be scary and may hit you quickly. Here are 11 strategies you can use to try to stop a panic attack when you’re having one or when you feel one coming on:

1. Use deep breathing

While hyperventilating is a symptom of panic attacks that can increase fear, deep breathing can reduce symptoms of panic during an attack.
If you’re able to control your breathing, you’re less likely to experience the hyperventilating that can make other symptoms — and the panic attack itself — worse.
Focus on taking deep breaths in and out through your mouth, feeling the air slowly fill your chest and belly and then slowly leave them again. Breathe in for a count of four, hold for a second, and then breathe out for a count of four:




2. Recognize that you’re having a panic attack

By recognizing that you’re having a panic attack instead of a heart attack, you can remind yourself that this is temporary, it will pass, and that you’re OK.
Take away the fear that you may be dying or that impending doom is looming, both symptoms of panic attacks. This can allow you to focus on other techniques to reduce your symptoms.

3. Close your eyes

Some panic attacks come from triggers that overwhelm you. If you’re in a fast-paced environment with a lot of stimuli, this can feed your panic attack.
To reduce the stimuli, close your eyes during your panic attack. This can block out any extra stimuli and make it easier to focus on your breathing.


4. Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness can help ground you in the reality of what’s around you. Since panic attacks can cause a feeling of detachment or separation from reality, this can combat your panic attack as it’s approaching or actually happening.
Focus on the physical sensations you are familiar with, like digging your feet into the ground, or feeling the texture of your jeans on your hands. These specific sensations ground you firmly in reality and give you something objective to focus on.READER SURVEYHelp us answer your questions about COVID-19.
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5. Find a focus object

Some people find it helpful to find a single object to focus all of their attention on during a panic attack. Pick one object in clear sight and consciously note everything about it possible.
For example, you may notice how the hand on the clock jerks when it ticks, and that it’s slightly lopsided. Describe the patterns, color, shapes, and size of the object to yourself. Focus all of your energy on this object, and your panic symptoms may subside.
6. Use muscle relaxation techniques

Much like deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques can help stop your panic attack in its tracks by controlling your body’s response as much as possible.
Consciously relax one muscle at a time, starting with something simple like the fingers in your hand, and move your way up through your body.
Muscle relaxation techniques will be most effective when you’ve practiced them beforehand.
7. Picture your happy place

What’s the most relaxing place in the world that you can think of? A sunny beach with gently rolling waves? A cabin in the mountains?
Picture yourself there, and try to focus on the details as much as possible. Imagine digging your toes into the warm sand, or smelling the sharp scent of pine trees.
This place should be quiet, calm, and relaxing — no streets of New York or Hong Kong, no matter how much you love the cities in real life.

8. Engage in light exercise

Endorphins keep the blood pumping in exactly the right away. It can help flood our body with endorphins, which can improve our mood. Because you’re stressed, choose light exercise that’s gentle on the body, like walking or swimming.
The exception to this is if you’re hyperventilating or struggling to breathe. Do what you can to catch your breath first.
9. Keep lavender on hand

Lavender is known for being soothing and stress-relieving. It can help your body relax. If you know you’re prone to panic attacks, keep some lavender essential oil on hand and put some on your forearms when you experience a panic attack. Breathe in the scent.
You can also try drinking lavender or chamomile tea. Both are relaxing and soothing.
Lavender should not be combined with benzodiazepines. This combination can cause intense drowsiness.
10. Repeat a mantra internally

Repeating a mantra internally can be relaxing and reassuring, and it can give you something to grasp onto during a panic attack.
Whether it’s simply “This too shall pass,” or a mantra that speaks to you personally, repeat it on loop in your head until you feel the panic attack start to subside.
11. Take benzodiazepines

Benzodiazepines may help treat panic attacks if you take one as soon as you feel an attack coming on.
While other approaches to the treatment of panic may be preferential, the field of psychiatry has acknowledged that there is a handful of people who will neither respond fully (or at all in some cases) to the other approaches listed in above, and as such, will be dependent on pharmacological approaches to therapy.
These approaches often will include benzodiazepines, some of which carry FDA approval for the treatment of this condition, such as alprazolam (Xanax).
Because benzodiazepines are a prescription medication, you’ll likely need a panic disorder diagnosis in order to have the medication on hand.
This medication can be highly addictive, and the body can adjust to it over time. It should only be used sparingly and in cases of extreme need.
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Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
Aww Fair :( I'm sorry you're having a bad time of it. ((hugs for you)) Thank goodness you have family so close by, I am sure that helps. They can certainly be frighting, but knowing what is going on is some help. Basic self care is also useful- some walking to release physical tension, eating well, staying hydrated, and getting enough rest help. Some find that learning the facts about what frightens them is a way to make the issues less scary, and to re-establish a sense of power and control over ones' environment, and one's self.

I like to recommend breathing slowly and deeply, light exercise, hot tea and warm hugs... Here's a list of things I grabbed off the internet, too, that may prove useful. One should always use their personal sense of well being as a guide to how much information they take in- when we have all this news amplified to the 9th degree, it is hard to stay detached and not be sucked in- but remember, they make their coin by selling you on the idea that all is awful and the sky is falling : you don't have to expose yourself to it nor fall for it. Even if times are rough...so what. :) Sky is gorgeous, breeze smells of sunshine & strawberries, & the people you love are ok, and right there, close enough to wrap your arms around. That is pretty wonderful stuff.

I would also mention that thyroid and other issues such as perimenopause often present with panic and anxiety, so it may be a good idea to get some blood work done if the condition persists.

Be good to yourself, we're all goin' to get through this <3

Panic attacks

Panic attacks are sudden, intense surges of fear, panic, or anxiety. They are overwhelming, and they have physical as well as emotional symptoms.
Many people with panic attacks may have difficulty breathing, sweat profusely, tremble, and feel their hearts pounding.
Some people will also experience chest pain and a feeling of detachment from reality or themselves during a panic attack, so they make think they’re having a heart attack. Others have reported feeling like they are having a stroke.
Panic attacks can be scary and may hit you quickly. Here are 11 strategies you can use to try to stop a panic attack when you’re having one or when you feel one coming on:

1. Use deep breathing

While hyperventilating is a symptom of panic attacks that can increase fear, deep breathing can reduce symptoms of panic during an attack.
If you’re able to control your breathing, you’re less likely to experience the hyperventilating that can make other symptoms — and the panic attack itself — worse.
Focus on taking deep breaths in and out through your mouth, feeling the air slowly fill your chest and belly and then slowly leave them again. Breathe in for a count of four, hold for a second, and then breathe out for a count of four:




2. Recognize that you’re having a panic attack

By recognizing that you’re having a panic attack instead of a heart attack, you can remind yourself that this is temporary, it will pass, and that you’re OK.
Take away the fear that you may be dying or that impending doom is looming, both symptoms of panic attacks. This can allow you to focus on other techniques to reduce your symptoms.

3. Close your eyes

Some panic attacks come from triggers that overwhelm you. If you’re in a fast-paced environment with a lot of stimuli, this can feed your panic attack.
To reduce the stimuli, close your eyes during your panic attack. This can block out any extra stimuli and make it easier to focus on your breathing.


4. Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness can help ground you in the reality of what’s around you. Since panic attacks can cause a feeling of detachment or separation from reality, this can combat your panic attack as it’s approaching or actually happening.
Focus on the physical sensations you are familiar with, like digging your feet into the ground, or feeling the texture of your jeans on your hands. These specific sensations ground you firmly in reality and give you something objective to focus on.READER SURVEYHelp us answer your questions about COVID-19.
Share your questions and concerns with Healthline so we can provide helpful information for you.ANSWER QUICK SURVEY



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Get anxiety and depression prescriptions online
PlushCare makes it easy to chat online with a doctor. Make an appointment, and in as little as 15 minutes, get seen and get a prescription to pick up at your local pharmacy.


5. Find a focus object

Some people find it helpful to find a single object to focus all of their attention on during a panic attack. Pick one object in clear sight and consciously note everything about it possible.
For example, you may notice how the hand on the clock jerks when it ticks, and that it’s slightly lopsided. Describe the patterns, color, shapes, and size of the object to yourself. Focus all of your energy on this object, and your panic symptoms may subside.
6. Use muscle relaxation techniques

Much like deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques can help stop your panic attack in its tracks by controlling your body’s response as much as possible.
Consciously relax one muscle at a time, starting with something simple like the fingers in your hand, and move your way up through your body.
Muscle relaxation techniques will be most effective when you’ve practiced them beforehand.
7. Picture your happy place

What’s the most relaxing place in the world that you can think of? A sunny beach with gently rolling waves? A cabin in the mountains?
Picture yourself there, and try to focus on the details as much as possible. Imagine digging your toes into the warm sand, or smelling the sharp scent of pine trees.
This place should be quiet, calm, and relaxing — no streets of New York or Hong Kong, no matter how much you love the cities in real life.

8. Engage in light exercise

Endorphins keep the blood pumping in exactly the right away. It can help flood our body with endorphins, which can improve our mood. Because you’re stressed, choose light exercise that’s gentle on the body, like walking or swimming.
The exception to this is if you’re hyperventilating or struggling to breathe. Do what you can to catch your breath first.
9. Keep lavender on hand

Lavender is known for being soothing and stress-relieving. It can help your body relax. If you know you’re prone to panic attacks, keep some lavender essential oil on hand and put some on your forearms when you experience a panic attack. Breathe in the scent.
You can also try drinking lavender or chamomile tea. Both are relaxing and soothing.
Lavender should not be combined with benzodiazepines. This combination can cause intense drowsiness.
10. Repeat a mantra internally

Repeating a mantra internally can be relaxing and reassuring, and it can give you something to grasp onto during a panic attack.
Whether it’s simply “This too shall pass,” or a mantra that speaks to you personally, repeat it on loop in your head until you feel the panic attack start to subside.
11. Take benzodiazepines

Benzodiazepines may help treat panic attacks if you take one as soon as you feel an attack coming on.
While other approaches to the treatment of panic may be preferential, the field of psychiatry has acknowledged that there is a handful of people who will neither respond fully (or at all in some cases) to the other approaches listed in above, and as such, will be dependent on pharmacological approaches to therapy.
These approaches often will include benzodiazepines, some of which carry FDA approval for the treatment of this condition, such as alprazolam (Xanax).
Because benzodiazepines are a prescription medication, you’ll likely need a panic disorder diagnosis in order to have the medication on hand.
This medication can be highly addictive, and the body can adjust to it over time. It should only be used sparingly and in cases of extreme need.
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Thank you so much, Jward, for the post and advice....I appreciate it. I did try breathing slowly, couldn't. I always have lavender on hand, I did run for it and rubbed it on my temples and splashed it all over my neck....I can't take medications except advil or aleve....every medicine i have ever tried, makes me feel worse. I had a DNA test done, and it seems that I am super sensitive to drug reactions, so I stay away from medications. I'm staying off social media, the stuff people are reporting is mind blowing, most if not all of it is lies....I'm praying this never happens again, but if it does, i'm going for the brown paper bag as fast as I can...and will remember what you shared.
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Loretta Van Riet

Trying to hang out with the cool kids.
Fairwillows, I'm so sorry you had a rough day. Sixteen years ago I was brutally attacked. Started having panic attacks after that event. I am living proof that Valerian root stops panic attacks very quickly if you dose properly.

Once you realize it's happening (panic attack) take 3 valerian capsules. If not better after 25 minutes, take 2 more. Very effective.
 

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
Fairwillows, I'm so sorry you had a rough day. Sixteen years ago I was brutally attacked. Started having panic attacks after that event. I am living proof that Valerian root stops panic attacks very quickly if you dose properly.

Once you realize it's happening (panic attack) take 3 valerian capsules. If not better after 25 minutes, take 2 more. Very effective.
So sorry you were attacked, how awful! I will order some Valerian caps, one of my daughters advised me to get them too, I will do that. Thank you so much 1591334534433.png
 
I am well, physically....tuesday and wednesday, i felt drugged....weak. Today, I had a panic attack. I've heard of them, but never experienced one. OMG....I thought I was going to die....really. 2 hours of my hands and feet tingling, I was dizzy and nauseated....I couldn't slow my breath down, heart pounding, every part of me shook uncontrollably, I cried like a damn baby....... My Grandson stayed with me. I told him not to call 911, to call my daughter, if I lost consciousness, there is NO way I would want to go to the hospital right now, .....at the 3 hour mark, I texted my daughters, they had me breathe into a paper bag, and wow, that helped me so much, who knew??? It still took another 2 hours for me to calm down......at this minute, I feel like I OVERDOSED on life, and I am still trembling inside! They say the schumann resonance is high, and we have a full moon coming....social media and the world is going flipping crazy....wish I had a bunker to crawl into.....it's tooooooo scary out there
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Full moon is Friday, but it's now too. It is not just one day. It is THE day and 2 days before and 2 days after which makes 5 days in all. I've had panic attacks 4 yrs ago when i had no heat in the house. For me though lasted about a half hr. Heart would start racing and my teeth were chattering and i was trembling. So i would run out to the car and start driving anywhere at all. Parked in front of a store and calmed down.

Doc friend told me i felt better becuz i RAN out to the car. Something about running does something to make it better he said. I forget now what words he used. I had them a lot due to no heat broken furnace. I am surprised i don't get them now as i am going thro a divorce. He is giving money to his drug addict girlfriend - for drugs. I have to fight for my money. Trying to get a free lawyer. Waiting for papers to come in the mail for petition for spousal support. Courts are still closed cuz of virus. Nerve wracking.

These damn panic attacks always come out of NOWHERE when you least expect it. There is a homeopathic remedy for it i forget the name. Others may know. Get at health store. I think it's called RESCUE. Not sure though.
 
Fairwillows, I'm so sorry you had a rough day. Sixteen years ago I was brutally attacked. Started having panic attacks after that event. I am living proof that Valerian root stops panic attacks very quickly if you dose properly.

Once you realize it's happening (panic attack) take 3 valerian capsules. If not better after 25 minutes, take 2 more. Very effective.
I'm so glad you mention Valerian. I didn't know that. I got lots on hand. Good to know.
 

ShadowMan

Designated Grumpy Old Fart
Panic attacks are not fun!! Been there and done that, thanks to PTSD from years of front line medical work and combat garbage. Came up on me suddenly after watching the movie Saving Private Ryan that somehow triggered blowing off the lid I'd had it held under. Absolutely not fun. Prayers for you.

As far as current events, that certainly hasn't helped. Fortunately living up on our mountain has really improved my calm and well being. I love being above the storm of humanity. Unfortunately those asshat BLM turds are planning a protest nearby and all the folks here on the mountain are really pissed at these flatlanders invading our sanctuary here in the clouds. I have no doubt that if they start anything they will leave this mountain in body bags. These are country boys up here not damn city slickers taking a knee. I will be so glad when all this garbage blows over and we can get back to our lives again.
 

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
Full moon is Friday, but it's now too. It is not just one day. It is THE day and 2 days before and 2 days after which makes 5 days in all. I've had panic attacks 4 yrs ago when i had no heat in the house. For me though lasted about a half hr. Heart would start racing and my teeth were chattering and i was trembling. So i would run out to the car and start driving anywhere at all. Parked in front of a store and calmed down.

Doc friend told me i felt better becuz i RAN out to the car. Something about running does something to make it better he said. I forget now what words he used. I had them a lot due to no heat broken furnace. I am surprised i don't get them now as i am going thro a divorce. He is giving money to his drug addict girlfriend - for drugs. I have to fight for my money. Trying to get a free lawyer. Waiting for papers to come in the mail for petition for spousal support. Courts are still closed cuz of virus. Nerve wracking.

These damn panic attacks always come out of NOWHERE when you least expect it. There is a homeopathic remedy for it i forget the name. Others may know. Get at health store. I think it's called RESCUE. Not sure though.
Maybe you're not getting them in the midst of your divorce, because you are well rid of him. So sorry you are fighting for what is yours. I can only imagine how you feel. Yes, I'm having marital problems, too, but won't get into that right now. Prayers for your avoidance of panic attacks. Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it. Stay warm and healthy 1591337853264.png
 

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
Panic attacks are not fun!! Been there and done that, thanks to PTSD from years of front line medical work and combat garbage. Came up on me suddenly after watching the movie Saving Private Ryan that somehow triggered blowing off the lid I'd had it held under. Absolutely not fun. Prayers for you.

As far as current events, that certainly hasn't helped. Fortunately living up on our mountain has really improved my calm and well being. I love being above the storm of humanity. Unfortunately those asshat BLM turds are planning a protest nearby and all the folks here on the mountain are really pissed at these flatlanders invading our sanctuary here in the clouds. I have no doubt that if they start anything they will leave this mountain in body bags. These are country boys up here not damn city slickers taking a knee. I will be so glad when all this garbage blows over and we can get back to our lives again.
Amen to the horrible current events...I've taken a break from the news...but I can't for long....I want to know what's coming!!! Best of luck to you on your mountain. Radar up, lock and load! God bless you for replying.
 

Milkweed Host

Veteran Member
For me, just being outside in the sunlight, barefoot in the grass or soil has a calming effect.
Some type of exercise works wonders. Even though I have a garden tiller, I'll work it with the
hoe after it gets started. Sunlight is your Vit D, barefoot is taking up negative electrons from the earth,
this repairs damaged cells. Exercise for the lungs and heart generates the electrical impulses that make
the heart run well. I suspect that too much internet research can get a person down also. Plus looking at
the computer screen along with the bright day light bulbs without using those special amber lenses can make
the eyes weak. Just another angle..............
 

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
For me, just being outside in the sunlight, barefoot in the grass or soil has a calming effect.
Some type of exercise works wonders. Even though I have a garden tiller, I'll work it with the
hoe after it gets started. Sunlight is your Vit D, barefoot is taking up negative electrons from the earth,
this repairs damaged cells. Exercise for the lungs and heart generates the electrical impulses that make
the heart run well. I suspect that too much internet research can get a person down also. Plus looking at
the computer screen along with the bright day light bulbs without using those special amber lenses can make
the eyes weak. Just another angle..............
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ginnie6

Veteran Member
I am so sorry. I've had a couple and they are no fun! Tuesday was my off day. I was basically mad at the world. I'm tired of all this crap, just sick and tired of it. Can't go to church but the idiots can congregate and riot, can't go grocery shopping without wearing a stupid mask, but its ok to congregate maskless to protest. So after being miserable all day Tuesday I took things in my hands Wednesday. I spent the whole day outside working. I weeded the garden and cleared a huge area out that was full of wisteria. I tell ya when that stuff blooms it is beautiful and smells great but it will take over the world if you let it! We've got an old deer stand on the edge of the garden that we haven't used in years and I want to turn it into a swing. I was so tired by afternoon I couldn't see straight. I came in, sat down, and fell asleep! But my mood is 100% better. Gotta help dd get her car to the shop this morning then its back out to the garden today. I never thought I would live to see our country like this. It's enough to give you anxiety and panic attacks but I think we just have to take it one day at a time and make sure we are as prepared as we can be for whatever comes.
 

Terriannie

Has No Life - Lives on TB
REMEMBER TO LET GO AND LET GOD!

SERIOUSLY!!!!

When it gets bad again, and it will, breathe in the name "Jesus" and exhale with "Jesus" and let go each and every time you feel it coming again no matter how many times it takes!

(I was feeling just like you only it didn't get bad.)
 

ChicagoMan74

ULTRA MAGA
I'm usually good for a couple panic attacks a year myself.

On the flipside of that...yesterday...it felt more "normal" then it has been since mid-March. Probably has to do with moving into "phase 3" in our state and having curfews lifted due to the unrest. We'll also be going to church in person on Sunday for the first time since mid-March as well.
 

Faroe

Un-spun
I was getting them earlier in the year, when I realized Covid was going to destroy our economy, and Chinese manufacturing. The person I live with and I are in the process of moving onto some land - the well isn't even dug. I kept telling him we need to do this now, we need to get these supplies now!....he was like:You need to get off that damn forum. I just gave up on that, and we will face the future with what we have or don't have. Whatever.

The attacks stopped (in my case, I couldn't breathe), but I've become increasingly detached since the riots started. I expected *something* big would happen, and of course now we are basically in a commie/Islamist/black extortionist insurrection. I don't sleep well anymore - dreams seem as much reality as waking daytime reality. It's not like in my life any of the bad stuff has even hit yet; I just know what is coming.
 

abby normal

insert appropriate adjective here
I am sorry to hear you had to go through this. I used to have terrible panic attacks when I was in my 20s. Sometimes I feel myself starting to have them again... I visualize putting my panic in a box, sealing it up, and sending it up to God to handle. "Here you go, I can't deal with this but I know You can, God!" It really helps me out. Sending you a cyber hug :rs:
 

mzkitty

I give up.
During a period of extremely bad stress a few years ago, my son started to experience horrible panic attacks. He literally thought he was going to die. All I could do was tell him to take deep breaths, know he wasn't going to die, and give him Chamomile tea. It's all we had at the time. Over the period of about a year, he stopped having them. Maybe due to the fact that he finally was allowed his Disability. Stress is a bad thing. That's usually what brings it on. I've never had one, but I can understand why people get them. You'll be OK, Fairwillows.

:(
 

tno5

Senior Member
I was having an ongoing and getting worse seasonal allergy attack along with a virus about 3 years ago - could not breathe period, really my only symptom. I was in a panic. husband took me to the ER where they made sure I wasn't having a heart attack, then hooked me up to a nebulizer for hours to try to help me to breathe. They never did figure out why I felt like I couldn't get air. Even had me breathing in a paper bag - did not help. I get panic attacks anytime I have to be on an interstate road or any 4 lane road that the speed limit is over 50mph, ever since I about got flattened by a semi - i lose feeling in my hands, cannot hold onto the steering wheel, I get vertigo, and I can't breathe. it is terrifying. so now I can only drive on back roads.
 

straightstreet

Life is better in flip flops
I had one when my mom was dying of cancer. It came and went fairly quickly. That whole time period was just awful. My prayers for you Fairwillows. Lots of good advice here.
 

SouthernBreeze

Has No Life - Lives on TB
I have a problem with panic attacks, too. Severe ones. Vistaril and Valium are my friends. I carry them with me everywhere I go. When I feel an attack coming on, I take the Vistaril. Wait 30 mins, and if it hasn't gone, I take the Valium. The last major attack sent me to the hospital. They kept me overnight, until things calmed down. Still, it took me 3 months to get over it.

Deep breathing excersises, getting away from other people, applying Lavender oil, and lying down in a quiet room helps me. I do all of this, before I reach for the drugs when possible.

My prayers go out to you, Fairwillows.
 

closet squirrel

Veteran Member
My daughter has found 2 things that help her during a panic attack.

Get a piece of gum. The activity of going to get it, unwrapping it, and then chewing distracts your mind

She also finds something to sort. She has a big jar of quarters and she will sort them into states, years, whatever. Again, it gives your mind something to focus on.
 

NCGirl

Veteran Member
I have never had a panic attack but understand they are awful.

I am usually a deep sleeper and easily get 7-8 hours a night. The past week, when I can even get to sleep, it is full of nightmares. I am exhausted physically and mentally. I have no hope for the future of America. My heart hurts for what may lie ahead. I have lost hope and the will to fight. I'm too old for this. I just want my country back but I realize now that it is too far gone and it's hitting me like a ton of bricks.
 

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
I am so sorry. I've had a couple and they are no fun! Tuesday was my off day. I was basically mad at the world. I'm tired of all this crap, just sick and tired of it. Can't go to church but the idiots can congregate and riot, can't go grocery shopping without wearing a stupid mask, but its ok to congregate maskless to protest. So after being miserable all day Tuesday I took things in my hands Wednesday. I spent the whole day outside working. I weeded the garden and cleared a huge area out that was full of wisteria. I tell ya when that stuff blooms it is beautiful and smells great but it will take over the world if you let it! We've got an old deer stand on the edge of the garden that we haven't used in years and I want to turn it into a swing. I was so tired by afternoon I couldn't see straight. I came in, sat down, and fell asleep! But my mood is 100% better. Gotta help dd get her car to the shop this morning then its back out to the garden today. I never thought I would live to see our country like this. It's enough to give you anxiety and panic attacks but I think we just have to take it one day at a time and make sure we are as prepared as we can be for whatever comes.
YES, ginnie6, that's where I'm at! It breaks my heart to see close family members being sucked in to the false narratives and news BS. There is no way for me to enlighten them...I just have to step back and let the current, take us where it will. I'd been reading way too many forums on the current news, and it exploded my ability to process all this. Thanks for your reply. May God bless you
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Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
REMEMBER TO LET GO AND LET GOD!

SERIOUSLY!!!!

When it gets bad again, and it will, breathe in the name "Jesus" and exhale with "Jesus" and let go each and every time you feel it coming again no matter how many times it takes!

(I was feeling just like you only it didn't get bad.)
Thank you, Terriannie, I think a panic attack must be like the old movies, where the actor is hysterical, and another actor slaps them in the face to bring them back to reality....that's what I'm thinking their purpose is! I feel much better, and don't ever want to let myself go there, again. Blessings to you
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Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
Who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?
Esther 4:14

He has a plan and you are part of it. Try to rest in this.
Thank you, Blastoff, you are correct, now that I know how easy it is to get sucked in by this whirlpool we are experiencing right now, I won't get so close. Blessings to you
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Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
I'm usually good for a couple panic attacks a year myself.

On the flipside of that...yesterday...it felt more "normal" then it has been since mid-March. Probably has to do with moving into "phase 3" in our state and having curfews lifted due to the unrest. We'll also be going to church in person on Sunday for the first time since mid-March as well.
I rejoice with you on the lifting of restrictions.....Stay well
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Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
I was getting them earlier in the year, when I realized Covid was going to destroy our economy, and Chinese manufacturing. The person I live with and I are in the process of moving onto some land - the well isn't even dug. I kept telling him we need to do this now, we need to get these supplies now!....he was like:You need to get off that damn forum. I just gave up on that, and we will face the future with what we have or don't have. Whatever.

The attacks stopped (in my case, I couldn't breathe), but I've become increasingly detached since the riots started. I expected *something* big would happen, and of course now we are basically in a commie/Islamist/black extortionist insurrection. I don't sleep well anymore - dreams seem as much reality as waking daytime reality. It's not like in my life any of the bad stuff has even hit yet; I just know what is coming.
Yes, Faroe..... I agree, sleeping has been an issue since this lock down started. May God help us, with what is coming. My faith is being tested, daily. Praying I am strong enough to withstand the storm. Prayers for you and yours. You are blessed to have your property.
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Blacknarwhal

Let's Go Brandon!
Doing all right, thanks. Could be better. Could be a lot worse. State's reopening so that's a plus. Already making a few plans for next week and beyond, God willing.

Am a bit on edge when you consider what all's going on, but one of the great things about living rural is you can back away from it, look out into your front yard, and realize that that all is happening somewhere else. Still a good idea to get ready for it in case it comes here, but it is most definitely not here.
 

Fairwillows

Where I am supposed to be.
I am sorry to hear you had to go through this. I used to have terrible panic attacks when I was in my 20s. Sometimes I feel myself starting to have them again... I visualize putting my panic in a box, sealing it up, and sending it up to God to handle. "Here you go, I can't deal with this but I know You can, God!" It really helps me out. Sending you a cyber hug :rs:
Thank you abby normal, I believe in the power of visualization, I will give that a try, with several issues that I am facing right now. Thanks for the hug, cyber or not, I could feel it. On that note, I went to a family function last weekend, and for the first time 3 months I had a hug, and it startled me so much, I almost cried. The human touch is so vital. Sending you a HUGE cyber hug. God bless you
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