LOL, alchemike.
There is a very good reason for that! Those of us who want to be good mothers worry about every little thing, and that is very stressful. Women who don't give a darn do not feel the intense responsibilty, but their babies eventually suffer from that .
Babies do not come with instruction manuals, and it usually takes a few babies for a mother to figure out what behaviors are typical and normal, and which behaviors indicate a real problem.
Some babies are placid, and hardly ever cry. Some babies never shut up, and react to every sensation with loud bouts of frantic wailing. Most are somewhere in between.
It is pretty normal for most babies to act "starved" between about 6 weeks and 3 months of age,
and to do a lot of crying, usually for a 4 hour period, typically starting around dinner time.
It drives new parents crazy, and sometimes can make a new mother so upset that she needs a break from the baby at this time, so she can compose herself for the remaining 20 hours of mothering.
But, by the time a mom has had 3 or 4 babies, this behavior won't bother her much at all, as she appreciates this time as being all too short a stage in parenting.
But, none of us experienced mothers ever forget that horrible feeling of being so "inadequate" to figure out what to do to stop the crying when we were learning on our first babies. It is the worst feeling in the world.
A few more babies, and we eventually figure out that this is just the way most babies act at this point in their development. We also kinda figure out that it must serve some purpose for both baby and mother.
And, we just appreciate this time, knowing that it will pass, and then another developmental task will take it's place. Like the point around 4 months when babies have learned how to wake up, but have no clue as to how to get themselves to sleep.
Being a parent is both a learning process and an art form. It is the most challenging and wonderful experience ever.