What does "don't judge a book by its cover" mean? Don't book covers exist just to be judged?
In March of 2019, I was so busy at work that my girlfriend Jessica took to the Book to try and find me some help for a few weeks.
Saturday afternoon, Jess placed an ad that said something along the lines of: “Looking for a painter to help with a project. Must be drug-free.”
We got a phone call that night from a lady who said her live-in boyfriend was interested but didn't have a driver’s license. Jess scheduled an informal interview for the next day and asked the lady to be at the interview also.
The plan was for me and Jess to meet the lady and her boyfriend, Lee, at a local restaurant for lunch at 1:00 pm.
The cool part about interviewing someone with their significant other present is it cuts down on a ton of bs. The anxiety and nervousness which is normal to experience during an interview and can help keep someone on their best behavior, fades quickly in the company of someone they're comfortable with. And if I'm going to have someone on my jobs, I want to know who they really are.
Jess and I got to the restaurant at 12:30 pm. We got a table in the corner and waited.
At 1:00 pm, Jess got a text. “We’re one minute away, sorry!!”
What the heck? Who shows up late to an interview?
Strike one.
At 1:01 pm this guy walks through the door:
I can't even tell you how disappointed I was. It's not like I can have some murderer on my jobs. Let's be real about this. Teardrops=killer. And this guy has three bodies — hell no. Strike two.
A third strike wasn't even needed when I extended my hand to shake his. But here it is — strike three.
Now that I've officially judged this book (Lee) by his cover, let's get through the interview process so I can find a better fit for my company.
I have no problem being straight up, so the first question I asked was: “Why did you murder three people?”
With unwavering eye contact, he said: “I've never killed anyone. Each teardrop is for a friend that died.”
He explained that he was put into foster care at twelve years old.
At fourteen he started inking himself. When his friends died, he’d get a tattoo to memorialize them.
He answered every question that I asked in detail.
This guy knew all the right things to say. He was articulate, funny, charismatic and charming. Just a joy to be around.
So, I handed him a cup. I told him to go pee in it. He passed a drug test and swore he was trying to rebuild his life. I melted for him. I understood.
I hired him on the spot. I couldn't help it. When I hired him, he hadn't worked in six months. No one would give him a shot. He didn't have glasses and couldn't see, nor did he have a driver’s license.
I set deadlines for him to get glasses and a license.
He got his glasses last month. And this week he's taking his driver’s test.
He also is a writer and a rapper (bonus points!).
Don't judge a book by its cover means: Making a decision about all that something is, based on what you see is a mistake.
I needed a painter, but I saw a murderer.
In reality, he is a father, a poet, a rapper, a writer and a painter.
Today, he is also my friend.
Leon