tiredude
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why did they ever get the right to vote? (haha) ....this is a fun thread
CHAT Women
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Ping Jockey
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Sid Vicious
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AlfaMan
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The right woman can enrich a man's life beyond belief. Marriage is a true partnership, 50/50. It's not easy to find the right woman (or man) to spend one's life with. But if you do your life is blessed.
Next March we celebrate 25 years married-she starts a sentence, I can finish it. We just get along. We say "I love you" to each other every day, and mean it. We're not just man and wife-we're two peas in a pod. We are married; yet we are two people. We complement each other, we love each other. We don't own each other.
Next March we celebrate 25 years married-she starts a sentence, I can finish it. We just get along. We say "I love you" to each other every day, and mean it. We're not just man and wife-we're two peas in a pod. We are married; yet we are two people. We complement each other, we love each other. We don't own each other.
Texican
Live Free & Die Free.... God Freedom Country....
The DW and I will celebrate 44 years of marriage on October 1. It hasn't always been wine and roses, but we worked out the problems together.
So many rush into marriage because of love which really was heat of the moment and these marriages end with traumatic impact on both parties and their families.
So many on this board have had bad marriage experiences and you can see it in their posts. This is sad. Hopeful one day they will find one that will truly become a part of their life.
In most long term marriages, the couple has learned to live together and to help each other especially thru the difficult times. When all else fails, ask God for help in finding a spouse and keeping your marriage going.
Texican....
So many rush into marriage because of love which really was heat of the moment and these marriages end with traumatic impact on both parties and their families.
So many on this board have had bad marriage experiences and you can see it in their posts. This is sad. Hopeful one day they will find one that will truly become a part of their life.
In most long term marriages, the couple has learned to live together and to help each other especially thru the difficult times. When all else fails, ask God for help in finding a spouse and keeping your marriage going.
Texican....
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desertvet2
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Trouble
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Been burned by every single female I've ever had in my life. Up to and including my back stabbing mother. Lying, manipulative self centered creatures. I have no use for them anymore. There's so much oh women are so strong and great, please. Women this day in age are some of the dumbest of God's creations. Just look around. You will see that I'm right. And this isn't to say men are worth a damn either, most arent.
Sid Vicious
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You found your unicorn. That's rare.
Ping Jockey
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I find most men, not all but most, are actually whiney-assed little weenies who are looking for nothing more than another mother. They want all their shit done for them and accept hardly any or no responsibility when things go tango uniform.
At the onset of the fem movement women generally took off and ran with it, usually leaving their menfolk behind wondering wtf. BUT... that attitude had recently changed. They are beginning to look around themselves at all the unhappiness and despair. Women who weren’t happy, and realizing it, are changing for the better; attitudes, self-confident, determined, and very self aware. It’s a slow process but it is happening amongst the women folk.
Most men, on the other hand, are hapless, yelping pups who have never been weaned properly and are always looking for another nipple to suckle.
They are bent and determined to remake their wives, girlfriends, or significant other into another mother. They look at women and see a meal, a bed, a truck payment, someone to pay the bills and take care of the kids whilst they play men amongst their mates.
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Mary Contrary
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Yep and that's why all my life I have preferred male company instead of females. The women stabbed me in the back and the men never did.
DazedandConfused
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If you want to understand a woman get to know her mother really well.
Actually, this statement is true for both sexes.
ohiohippie
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Low blow dude!
ainitfunny
Saved, to glorify God.
Both Sid Vicious chose that name NOT without knowing how anyone calling themselves "Vicious", would be perceived by most people. If not an observable trait, then perhaps a cloaked one. Sexually vicious? Wife beater? Animal abuser? They're Terrified because you understand women?
I think not. And if Florence Nightengale did write that she' was just mentally ill.
summer-texan
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yes, and not say anything because they save it up for an illogical argument some time in the future.
on a serious note, i'm in my 60's. my first wife and i basically took on the old school roles like our parents. we had no children. we both worked full time. we got home and i just chilled while she cooked, cleaned, laundry and ++++.
now, my second wife was 14 years or so younger. she worked less then part time. she had one child and we had one together. after work when i wanted to chill the answer was NO, either do dishes or laundry. i know there's clean laundry that needs to be folded and put away. always something to do.
and with a smile i did what ever she told me to do. she loved me. she knew how to treat a man. I was/am still head over heals in love with her.
she passed away 2006. i'm still in love with her.
MinnesotaSmith
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He's not wrong, though.
ohiohippie
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It’s pretty evident exactly what your opinions are of women from your posts.
I’m sorry your whole world is colored by those opinions.
Samuel Adams
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Praise God.......that is the rule......but there are exceptions......
My Girl broke every mold and cliche ever formed by the constructs and constricts of darkness that has permeated this world, and I wouldn’t trade her, or the years we had together, for anything that the Father of Creation might have to offer in eternity......save that eternity be spent with her.
Samuel Adams
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hunybee
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MinnesotaSmith
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I'm not wrong, either. You might want to read Dr. Stephen Baskerville's well-researched Taken Into Custody, Steve Moxon's The Woman Racket, Daniel Amneus' The Garbage Generation, Roger Devlin's article "Home Economics", or Thomas James Ball's last statement (he's the guy who went "Flame on!" like Thích Quảng Đức and Mohamed Bouazizi on the steps of the Keene NH courthouse in 2011) to start getting up to speed on what's happened to marriage and family from men's POV in the U.S. post-1965.
Alternatively, if you're not really much of a reader, you could just look up the story of Darrin White:
Family blames justice system for pushing man to suicide
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ohiohippie
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My POV from the perspective of a survivor of mental and physical abuse by my mother and my ex…….
Don’t give hatefulness and unforgiveness have the power to color your world.
Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water.
Life is but a vapor.
Live it!
Don’t give hatefulness and unforgiveness have the power to color your world.
Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water.
Life is but a vapor.
Live it!
MinnesotaSmith
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And watch how both her mother and she treat her father, particularly when he tells them "No" on something they want him to do. Hint: if he's alive and out of the picture, BIG red flag.
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ChicagoMan74
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LMAO.
Reality has a way of ruining all those rainbows and unicorns. (thread pun intended)
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WildDaisy
God has a plan, Trust it!
I had an absolute gem of a father. My parents were married for 62 years when he passed a few years ago after suffering from Alzheimer's for 8 years. We cared for him at home and it was a lot of work and difficult, but we owed it to him!
He was a lifelong firefighter until he retired. He worked side jobs and did whatever he could do to afford to send me to private school and the family take really nice vacations every year. He was a huge marshmallow - loved hugs and affection and gave freely. He was ecstatic when he became a grandpa - he had the "boy" he always wanted to do that rough and tumble guy stuff with.
I worked full time for most of my life until I quit to care for him. When my son was a newborn, he was cared for during the day by a family friend. One day, I left work early to pick up my son for a doctor's appointment. When I arrived the woman told me my son wasn't there. I was in shock for a moment. She said my father picked him up almost every day and took him to the beach for his bottle and a stroll before returning him an hour or so later. It never occurred to me to tell my dad that I had an appointment. But he just dodded on my son. As he got older, they golfed together, fished together, went out for breakfast with "just the guys".
I was young when I married the first time. He was a bit older than me, but the life of the party and exciting. That ended up being the wrong traits to have for a spouse. He was an alcoholic and cheated numerous times. But I wasn't bitter about it, we are still friends and even though our son is an adult now, we still do family outings together with his wife (one of the ones he cheated on me with) and my husband and our son and we go bowling or out for dinner or something together. I figured, why be bitter, he's just not that into me, and I won't change that, so move on and find someone who is.
I took stock in what things I wanted from a spouse and those were the qualities I looked for. I prayed about it a lot. I was alone as a single mom for a long time. But, in God's timing, my husband found me when I wasn't even looking. He's just like Dad! Raised a child as if it were his own, showers us with love and affection.
Are Dad and DH perfect? No, they had flaws. We all have flaws. I have them, Mom has them too. But being in a loving relationship isn't about perfect - you're never going to find someone perfect. The trick is to find someone with flaws you are willing to work with, and they are willing to work with yours. You take the good with the bad, and if you work hard enough at it, the good outweighs the bad and most days are a joy.
He was a lifelong firefighter until he retired. He worked side jobs and did whatever he could do to afford to send me to private school and the family take really nice vacations every year. He was a huge marshmallow - loved hugs and affection and gave freely. He was ecstatic when he became a grandpa - he had the "boy" he always wanted to do that rough and tumble guy stuff with.
I worked full time for most of my life until I quit to care for him. When my son was a newborn, he was cared for during the day by a family friend. One day, I left work early to pick up my son for a doctor's appointment. When I arrived the woman told me my son wasn't there. I was in shock for a moment. She said my father picked him up almost every day and took him to the beach for his bottle and a stroll before returning him an hour or so later. It never occurred to me to tell my dad that I had an appointment. But he just dodded on my son. As he got older, they golfed together, fished together, went out for breakfast with "just the guys".
I was young when I married the first time. He was a bit older than me, but the life of the party and exciting. That ended up being the wrong traits to have for a spouse. He was an alcoholic and cheated numerous times. But I wasn't bitter about it, we are still friends and even though our son is an adult now, we still do family outings together with his wife (one of the ones he cheated on me with) and my husband and our son and we go bowling or out for dinner or something together. I figured, why be bitter, he's just not that into me, and I won't change that, so move on and find someone who is.
I took stock in what things I wanted from a spouse and those were the qualities I looked for. I prayed about it a lot. I was alone as a single mom for a long time. But, in God's timing, my husband found me when I wasn't even looking. He's just like Dad! Raised a child as if it were his own, showers us with love and affection.
Are Dad and DH perfect? No, they had flaws. We all have flaws. I have them, Mom has them too. But being in a loving relationship isn't about perfect - you're never going to find someone perfect. The trick is to find someone with flaws you are willing to work with, and they are willing to work with yours. You take the good with the bad, and if you work hard enough at it, the good outweighs the bad and most days are a joy.
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PghPanther
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In my 14 years with Lori before she passed......she never once raised her voice with me.......never argued and if we rarely disagreed on something we resolved it in that moment which meant she never had played the silent treatment game.
She never complained of having a headache and in fact every idea and/or suggestion I made she was enthusiastic about.....
I once even joked to her........'are you sure you originally had a vagina?.............to which she laughed out loud and said......"yup always have been a girl but I had lots of practice of being around the guys.......remember I had two older brothers and no sisters"
It had occurred to me and to all those who have listened to my stories about her that I was in some major "rarified air" when it came to a relationship.......
All I could say was..........
I sure was.................(sigh)..........I sure was.........
She never complained of having a headache and in fact every idea and/or suggestion I made she was enthusiastic about.....
I once even joked to her........'are you sure you originally had a vagina?.............to which she laughed out loud and said......"yup always have been a girl but I had lots of practice of being around the guys.......remember I had two older brothers and no sisters"
It had occurred to me and to all those who have listened to my stories about her that I was in some major "rarified air" when it came to a relationship.......
All I could say was..........
I sure was.................(sigh)..........I sure was.........
You know, it pains me to say this, but your cheese has slid off its cracker. Go somewhere else to bitch at nothing that matters.
I had to laugh about this. Sometimes it's amusing to see the shoe on the other foot. Some of our posters remind me of Mac Davis.
That being said, I live in the land of unicorns. Not only do I have an amazing DH who can fix anything, including my once-broken heart, but there are many other good men around here who (as far as I know) are loyal and true.