What a blessing to have that large extended family. My father was an only child and my mother had one sister. That sister only had one child and he never had any children. My sisters and I each had two boys. We ended up with seven biological grandchildren between the three of us but my sisters both have a step grandchild each that we all love as dearly as the others. It makes me so sad that we ended up with such a small family.I have a lot of 1st cousins that are older than me, and a lot that are younger on both sides. I lost a couple from Covid. One older, and one younger. My aunt that just passed lost a DS from Covid. He was a couple of years older than me. She has one son and one daughter left. The daughter and I have always been really close. We grew up together on our grandparent's farm. Mom and Dad had a house on one end of the farm, and my aunt and uncle had a house on the other side. We both stayed on the farm, until we both got married. We were all one big happy family. Aunt's oldest DS owns the whole farm, now. He bought Mom and Dad's home, once they decided to move back to the nearest small town. The old farmhouse burned, before my grandmother passed.
Because of leaving here for good as an eight year old, I'm not close to my second and third cousins like I was before we left. Had my mother moved back here with daddy's last deployment like she did with all the others, I feel it would have been different. That would have had me in touch with all of them at twelve and there were/are so many. She was in cosmetology school at the time and I don't blame her for wanting to finish and not have to find a school in another state to transfer hours, etc.