INSANITY Today I Gave My Dad A Choice: Trump or His Grandkids and His Son

anna43

Veteran Member
I have relatives that I'm avoiding on Facebook and the telephone until after the election. The hatred some people have for Trump is unfounded, unreasoned and insane so there is no talking to them so I don't. A couple of them I'm worried that their heads will explode if Trump is re-elected.

On the other hand, when you have truly toxic relatives or friends it is best to eliminate all contact with them immediately and permanently.
 

Squib

Veteran Member
It's about disrespecting your father, not "neurotic women."

No disrespect intended, Mzkitty...

My point is, he’s acting like an emotionally unstable teenage girl or woman. I would say man, but he’s not very manly sounding.

And yes, it is about disrespect for your father, but you must admit, there seems to be a strong element of emotional swinging going on there!
 

Kathy in FL

Administrator
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sure I understand the dislike by people, but the absolute hatred is really sad and perplexing at the same time. Actually I'm not sure hatred is a strong enough word anymore

And the fact that he felt the need to try and justify and rationalize his actions by publishing them in a national format? That my friends is going to backfire on him bigly. This dude just signed up for one of the bigger "I'm mentally ill and don't care who knows it" labels there is. Notice he didn't mention a wife (or husband). My guess is that the mother of the kids could very well have a thing or three to say about this. She may not be a Trump fan but who wants a jackass like this guy is playing god with their kids. He's got the emotional strength of a wet piece of cheap toilet paper.
 

Kathy in FL

Administrator
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The guy is a prolific hack. You think I write/post too much? This guy's Medium footprint is ginormous. And from one of his most recent stories:

I want to start off by saying that this will reflect my own experiences and opinions. I expect that many feel the same way, but I don’t want to assume that. I have been battling with depression and anxiety for about a decade now. And I came out of it. For the first time in a decade, I don’t need any medication to help me manage my mental health. It gave me a perspective that I hope will help others.

He also mentions his is ADHD and lives inside the box of mental illness. Someone needs to take his keyboard away. He posts a story nearly every day. Obviously he is not helping himself and will soon give whatever wife/partner he may have had/have enough ammunition that he'll lose what contact he does have with the kids he mentioned in the OP.
 
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Well, Shrek, if I were your father, I’d cut you loose along time ago. Maybe your parents didn’t raise you right, or you just have a mental handicap...either way, you’ll likely ruin you children too...if You haven’t already.
U don't understand Shrek - if the liberals win your kids and grand kids will NOT live in a free country! They will grow up living in a controlled boot kicking Communist country with very little freedom. My man, it is YOU who are deceived.
Telling dad that you are going to live with Grandpa to take care of him would also be sweet.

I have an idea something like this was responsible for my 7YO grand-niece being banned from any contact with DW and me by her grandmother. The child is headstrong and has been well taught by DW's brother's family to push buttons, I believe this one blew up on her.
That would also cause emotional pain for the grandkids.

That just makes it all the more effective to weaponize the kids.
My grand daughter is 23 now. When she was little i raised her and took care of her a lot. When she was 4 my son was stealing my moms SSI check money. She gave him permission, but didn't know what she was doing. I put a stop to it. I changed her bank account so he couldn't take her money out. He was evil and still is. He took my only grand daughter away from me for a whole year. Wouldn't let me see her or go in the house. I went there a few times and peeked in her bedroom window. She was sad and sitting on the floor watching tv in her room. She had NO bed!! She was sleeping on the floor. After a year of begging he let me see her and take her out. I got her a nice bed. I bought her a nice pillow. He took the pillow for himself.

She had none. I put xmas lights in her room. He took them out and put in the front room. My son is still evil. When she was 17 she moved away and never spoke to me again. I haven't seen her in 5 yrs. I have a great grand daughter i never saw cept some pictures my son took. That whole side of the family is evil and on drugs. Grand daughter has a controlling boyfriend and he made her not speak to me anymore only cuz he hated my son cuz my son used to hit my daughter in law. Son on drugs. I haven't talked to him in 5 months. He keeps selling his cell phone for drugs and can't call me.
 
Grandparents have a right to see their grandchildren. The grandfather could go to court for visitation rights. It may calm down after all the election madness is settled.

Two of my grandchildren have said negative things about Trump in my presence. They were said matter of factly. I told them that I did not agree and that I would be voting for Trump. I also told them that I would not discuss politics with them in their Mom's house, because we disagree. (If they come to my house, it would be different.)

At least I planted a seed of doubt. They are too young for debate anyway. 12 and 7. Now the oldest one I could engage in debate. She is in 8th grade.
I tried going to a lawyer to see my grand daughter. Told me in NY state grand parents have no rights. I gave up.
 

Ping Jockey

Inactive
Dad failed.....failed to raise this BOY right.
I don’t know about that. I’ve seen good parents raise great kids only to have one or two of them turn out just like the poofter in the op. Mine included. I’d cull the ungrateful bastard out in a heartbeat. Any legal documentation — wills, etc. — that I had with his name on it would be changed immediately.

Bad genes are bad genes. DNA don’t make family.
 

Doat

Veteran Member
I feel sorry for his Dad. Basically he hates Trump more than he loves his Dad. Actually, he doesn't really love his Dad because he would never do this if he loved him.

It could be a parenting fail, or not. It's easy to always blame the parents for raising him badly. But then I remember there has only been One Perfect Father and His children still rebelled.

He is a product of the United States reeducation camps...our public school system.
 

Kathy in FL

Administrator
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The parents get blamed for everything when in fact, once a kid hits the age of accountability - and 18 isn't it - they are the sole person that will have to answer for their choices come their Judgment Day. For years I've told my kids that I love them, I'm doing the best I can, but don't blame me if they screw up and have personal accountability kick them in the head. They all know the difference between right and wrong, it is a knowledge that comes to people at a young age. What you do with that knowledge is what counts. If he is truly mentally ill - as he points to in some of his other writing - that doesn't mean he doesn't know the difference.
 

mudlogger

Veteran Member
My dil texted me last week, offering us the opportunity to help fund (my son makes 2x what we do) a mommy/kids vacation trip across 2 states with another homeschool mommy/kids. I didn't respond to her text, because I talked about it with my husband, and then forgot about it. They are serious Christians, but have fallen for the blm bs. "Oh, isn't it wonderful! That's what today's video sermon was about!"

I had texted my son asking that he call me, which he did, 3 days later, ( I had forgotten why ) and it was a good conversation. I expressed my concerns about 2 women and a bunch of kids taking a lengthy road trip in today's political climate, maybe this isn't a good time, everything thing was good, and then 2 days later I get a long email.

I'm a misogynist, and they don't want the kids around us.

For the second time. (we still don't know what set that off, but I saw them a month ago and my son apologized for it, and just said "human nature")

Well, actually the third time, because 10 years ago the menfolk were talking, and husband said something along the lines of "women have some different areas of temptation than men", like gossip. Kapow! Misogynist, for the first time.

I am going to write and apologize for not acknowledging her original text, as that is apparently a huge faux pas.

And the will thing? Yep.
 

mistaken1

Has No Life - Lives on TB
There is a complete disregard for women, minorities, science, ethics, and morality. Please consider if you support Trump that much. Because I hate him that much.

Classic TDS.

Leo, give me one solid example of Trump doing that which you claim without using CNN, MSNBC, Washington Post or the New York Times as proof.
 

Terriannie

Has No Life - Lives on TB
Dear Son,

Be very careful instilling hatred into your children for their grandparents. As you so well exemplified by your letter of separation, children can turn against their parents, so be very careful. Hatred has a way of proliferating, so, I wouldn't bet the ranch that they won't turn on you.

Love,
Mom, and Dad
 

Squib

Veteran Member
Dear Son,

Be very careful instilling hatred into your children for their grandparents. As you so well exemplified by your letter of separation, children can turn against their parents, so be very careful. Hatred has a way of proliferating, so, I wouldn't bet the ranch that they won't turn on you.

Love,
Mom, and Dad

^^^^^ Heres a bit of wisdom right here! ^^^^^^^^

Especially for those offspring who claim to be Christians, yet judge others, disrespect parents, and support baby killers!
 

sleepyeddie

Senior Member
Perfect way to hurt your dad and your kids with your immature ideals. He will regret this. So will his dad and kids. Some how I think he will come back to reality and what is important when Trump wins.
 

Walrus Whisperer

Hope in chains...
No disrespect intended, Mzkitty...

My point is, he’s acting like an emotionally unstable teenage girl or woman. I would say man, but he’s not very manly sounding.

And yes, it is about disrespect for your father, but you must admit, there seems to be a strong element of emotional swinging going on there!
Those are what we here, call "soy boys".
 

FireDance

TB Fanatic
I tried going to a lawyer to see my grand daughter. Told me in NY state grand parents have no rights. I gave up.

Yes. In a LOT of states grandparents have no rights. Fires me up. Mainly because it’s ridiculous.

But the little sweeties will leave the grandkids for the grandparents to raise if they have something “better” to do. Again, ridiculous.
 

BV141

Has No Life - Lives on TB
U don't understand Shrek - if the liberals win your kids and grand kids will NOT live in a free country! They will grow up living in a controlled boot kicking Communist country with very little freedom. My man, it is YOU who are deceived.


My grand daughter is 23 now. When she was little i raised her and took care of her a lot. When she was 4 my son was stealing my moms SSI check money. She gave him permission, but didn't know what she was doing. I put a stop to it. I changed her bank account so he couldn't take her money out. He was evil and still is. He took my only grand daughter away from me for a whole year. Wouldn't let me see her or go in the house. I went there a few times and peeked in her bedroom window. She was sad and sitting on the floor watching tv in her room. She had NO bed!! She was sleeping on the floor. After a year of begging he let me see her and take her out. I got her a nice bed. I bought her a nice pillow. He took the pillow for himself.

She had none. I put xmas lights in her room. He took them out and put in the front room. My son is still evil. When she was 17 she moved away and never spoke to me again. I haven't seen her in 5 yrs. I have a great grand daughter i never saw cept some pictures my son took. That whole side of the family is evil and on drugs. Grand daughter has a controlling boyfriend and he made her not speak to me anymore only cuz he hated my son cuz my son used to hit my daughter in law. Son on drugs. I haven't talked to him in 5 months. He keeps selling his cell phone for drugs and can't call me.

NOT to be disrespectful, but this one needs to be turned over to Gold Almighty.
No family mess is too bigger God to undo. But it does take prayer.
 

FireDance

TB Fanatic
And a couple of years ago, my daughter told me I was both a “redneck” (although I have always lived in pretty large cities) and a “racist”. Ok.

Well, thank the good Lord experience has taught her differently during these two years.

She sounds anti-Trump at the moment, but for my own sanity, I don’t bring it up. And even if I did, I don’t expect to change her mind.

I never quite understood how I became a redneck by moving to no where from giant metro areas.

The racist part, well, I judge by actions and not by color (everyone). So I guess I might have called Obammy a bad word or something. She STILL doesn’t understand why Memphis is not a destination and so on, but well, you can only do so much.

I don’t talk religion (much) or politics with her. She apparently thought the history teacher was good looking or something and missed that part of her education. I just don’t know.

All I have to say about Mr. Mental Illness in a Box is, I pray he was just writing crap and all that never happened.

The way grandparents are treated in this country is just a shame. But you know, IF they have any mental IQ to grow, perhaps they will see the error of their ways.

As a family we didn’t always agree, sometimes someone would get angry. But we agreed to disagree most of the time and got past it. I guess you MIGHT call that respect.

Prayers for everyone effected by this crazy type of crap.
 

Walrus Whisperer

Hope in chains...
Im about 90 miles from Yellowstone...your info says that too...you from the WY side or MT?

Yeah, soy boy...can’t call them what they really are...not in polite company!
When I wrote that I was living in MT. Now I'm in CO, still too close if it blew.
 

KenGin31

Veteran Member
Why do these people only watch MSM. My brother is one of them. How many times does MSM have to be called out for thier lies.
 

Squib

Veteran Member
When I wrote that I was living in MT. Now I'm in CO, still too close if it blew.

Well, if...or when, it blows - if she cuts loose completely, I figured I’d just stand on the back porch, pray really quickly, and watch a 2000 foot high wall of 1800 degree, Pyroclastic death coming towards us at 400 mph. :shr:
 
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