In rethinking, I remember a story of a father who's x-wife left with his son never to be found for years. Of course, he searched but in the meantime, every year for the son's birthday and Christmas he would buy a gift and wrap it with his son's name and year on it.
When the son turned 35 he decided to look up his father out of both curiosity and closure to confront him because he was told his father was a monster and his mom had to protect him from his dad. Coming to the house he met his father and immediately accused him not only of the abuse to his mother but the lack of love for him by not coming to at least see him.
Naturally, the father told him none of that was true and he did search for him but that was met with doubt. It was then his father asked him to follow him and showed him the attic chock-a-block FULL of the wrapped gifts of baseballs, footballs, I-pods, etc., but it wasn't the "things" that got to him it was an attic full of LOVE!!!
Suffice to say, the son's heart and his world, was turned around 180 degrees, and inadvertently, the father gained revenge against his x-wife.
This type of practice or something similar should be done for all the children/grandchildren who have been ripped from a family by evil-thinking libs. Don't forget them in your will. Keep writing cards for their birthdays and Christmas. Put an honorary name tag with their name on a seat for Holiday parties and take a picture of it.
The outcome might take years but in the end, LOVE will win and "revenge" will be all the more, sweet.