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JF&P

Deceased
This strikes close to home....

I'm at high risk as I have congestive heart failure and high blood pressure....but I'm not freaking out as I look forward to going home to Jesus. But I am in essense in my own lock down as my kids do all my grocery shopping and pick up my meds. Plus I live at the end of a half mile dirt and gravel road.
 

SouthernBreeze

Has No Life - Lives on TB
Still praying, here, too. Hopefully, he isn't still in jail. Wish he had left a contact number with another member or admin. Maybe, we should all think about doing that?
 

Buick Electra

TB2K Girls with Guns
GOOD GRAVY!! Is he still in Jail??? I know he was living with his (son? daughter?). Are they in Portland? Is there only one jail in Portland? I'd call the jail to see if he was there but I don't know where he was. Anyone have a clue?
 

Buick Electra

TB2K Girls with Guns
I think I found him!!! Arrested 11/20/20

I don't want to give away his name here.

He's in a jail in Clackamas, Oregon!

Here's the poop from the website....

Bond is $40K!!! 10% is $4K. I don't have 4K. I can contribute but I don't have $4K.

Date: 11/20/2020
Total Bond: $40000



Charges
  • #1 STRANGULATION APA
    STATUTE: ORS.163.187-2
    BOND: $40000
    NOTES:
 
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summerthyme

Administrator
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I think, unless someone here knows him in real life *at least* enough to have name and address details, our role here really should be limited to prayer.

Among other factors, IF he IS living with the relative he got into the physical discussion with and it's *her* home... he's now homeless, because a restraining order is almost always filed by the DA, and he's not likely to be allowed in the house. Sigh...

Father God, You know the situation here with our Brother who has fallen on hard times. These are stressful times, and many are reacting in ways which are uncharacteristic normally. Please provide help for our friend; physically, spiritually and financially. If he has a safe place to stay if he can get out on bail, please provide the means for that. In the meantime, please keep him safe from the virus...

Summerthyme
 

bluelady

Veteran Member
Thanks, BE. The Clackamas County jail is in Oregon City, and I believe Cascadians lives there. JF&P *did* share with us what happened, but I agree to be cautious since we don't really know the situation. But it would apparently be easy to make contact if it's decided that's a good idea. Continuing to pray!
 

Buick Electra

TB2K Girls with Guns
I think, unless someone here knows him in real life *at least* enough to have name and address details, our role here really should be limited to prayer.

Among other factors, IF he IS living with the relative he got into the physical discussion with and it's *her* home... he's now homeless, because a restraining order is almost always filed by the DA, and he's not likely to be allowed in the house. Sigh...

Father God, You know the situation here with our Brother who has fallen on hard times. These are stressful times, and many are reacting in ways which are uncharacteristic normally. Please provide help for our friend; physically, spiritually and financially. If he has a safe place to stay if he can get out on bail, please provide the means for that. In the meantime, please keep him safe from the virus...

Summerthyme

I know him in real life. Full name, phone # etc. We've talked frequently.

He has his own home but I know his (either) son or daughter went to bring him to their place after his hospitalization but he still owns his own place.

I will be mailing off a letter to him tomorrow asking him if there's anyone he wants me to get in touch with that either has the $4k or could raise the $4k. I can contribute but only a couple hundred.

I also asked him in the letter if he would want to go home, considering he no longer drives. I know he had a neighbor out where he lives that would drive him around.

Also asked him if he would like me to put some money on his jail credit card as I know from my client's who put money on their jailed abusers cards so they can purchase blankets if they're cold. I was shocked to learn the jail just didn't hand out blankets!! Or to have money on their cards to make phone calls, buy a razor to shave, cigarettes, candy, etc.

I did put in my letter that maybe he was safer where he is for now as he's getting 3 squares a day, but with his congestive heart failure and diabetes I worry about him, plus he's in with all those whackadoodle antifa/BLM types and the trannies that can't decide on their genders. Hope he's not picking up a lot of soap bars. And I worry his CHF might be exacerbated by anyone who might have covid. And at age 73 with his comorbidities he'd be a prime candidate if anyone else came in or down with it. I'd just really like to get him out of there before Christmas.
 

JMG91

Veteran Member
I think I found him!!! Arrested 11/20/20

I don't want to give away his name here.

He's in a jail in Clackamas, Oregon!

Here's the poop from the website....

Bond is $40K!!! 10% is $4K. I don't have 4K. I can contribute but I don't have $4K.

Date: 11/20/2020
Total Bond: $40000



Charges
  • #1 STRANGULATION APA
    STATUTE: ORS.163.187-2
    BOND: $40000
    NOTES:
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JMG91

Veteran Member
I know him in real life. Full name, phone # etc. We've talked frequently.

He has his own home but I know his (either) son or daughter went to bring him to their place after his hospitalization but he still owns his own place.

I will be mailing off a letter to him tomorrow asking him if there's anyone he wants me to get in touch with that either has the $4k or could raise the $4k. I can contribute but only a couple hundred.

I also asked him in the letter if he would want to go home, considering he no longer drives. I know he had a neighbor out where he lives that would drive him around.

Also asked him if he would like me to put some money on his jail credit card as I know from my client's who put money on their jailed abusers cards so they can purchase blankets if they're cold. I was shocked to learn the jail just didn't hand out blankets!! Or to have money on their cards to make phone calls, buy a razor to shave, cigarettes, candy, etc.

I did put in my letter that maybe he was safer where he is for now as he's getting 3 squares a day, but with his congestive heart failure and diabetes I worry about him, plus he's in with all those whackadoodle antifa/BLM types and the trannies that can't decide on their genders. Hope he's not picking up a lot of soap bars. And I worry his CHF might be exacerbated by anyone who might have covid. And at age 73 with his comorbidities he'd be a prime candidate if anyone else came in or down with it. I'd just really like to get him out of there before Christmas.
Please keep us updated when you hear back from him--and let him know we're praying for him!
 

summerthyme

Administrator
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Absolutely! I'm equally conflicted about where he's safest... it's a shame it seems the family option isn't going to work out. Please do let him know we're praying for him.

But please don't start a fundraiser without talking to Dennis first... it's against the rules...

Summerthyme
 

JF&P

Deceased
I'm home....12 days in jail...my daughter and I had a huge fight....and I have another court date the 31st.....long story.

Thank You all for your prayers....my daughter and her hubby moved out so I was able to return home....

Frankly I am so completely ashamed and embarrassed....my daughter is a victim of satanic ritual abuse so she has multiple personalities....it used to be called MPD now days its called Dissociative Identity Disorder (Multiple Personality Disorder)....jail is not a great place to be.

My cat is so glad to see me....I love her so much. My friends have been feeding her and all the cat stuff.
 
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Marie

Veteran Member
I'm home....12 days in jail...my daughter and I had a huge fight....and I have another court date the 31st.....long story.

Thank You all for your prayers....my daughter and her hubby moved out so I was able to return home....

Frankly I am so completely ashamed and embarrassed....my daughter is a victim of satanic ritual abuse so she has multiple personalities....it used to be called MPD now days its called Dissociative Identity Disorder (Multiple Personality Disorder)....jail is not a great place to be.

My cat is so glad to see me....I love her so much. My friends have been feeding her and all the cat stuff.
Praying
 

thompson

Certa Bonum Certamen
I just now saw this, JF&P! Glad you are home.

It was my understanding that your daughter (whom I have prayed about before) and her husband moved into YOUR home a while back. Is that correct? Sounds like I am as you said they moved out. I'll come right out and say it: I was uneasy (to put it mildly) when you mentioned they had moved in with you. :(

I'm so sorry you have these troubles. You remain in my prayers.
 
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