HYPOCRISY 'Liberal woman' goes viral on TikTok for saying it's hard to find 'masculine' man who's not conservative

AlfaMan

Has No Life - Lives on TB
The more liberal women make their "attributes" known, the more they end up attracted to the regular conservative guys.
DC is slam full of female ,young recent college graduates with their heads rattling with the same liberal BS.

And they'll find an equally liberal guy, date him once or twice and the next time you see them they're hooked up with their plumber or a construction worker. Average Joe, way more conservative than the soy boys they dated. The soy boys usually end up with other soy boys anyway.

Being liberal is an interesting concept-but it's a losing proposition in the dating and marriage world.
 

20Gauge

TB Fanatic
I wasn't sure what to choose for the prefix, so hopefully hypocrisy works. I am starting to wonder if these women, who have been so steeped in feminism, are now starting to get a faint realization that that movement has deceived them and let them down?


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A self-proclaimed "liberal woman" went viral on TikTok in recent days for posting a video complaining about not being able to find a masculine man who is "not conservative."

TikTok user @ms_petch posted the video last week which has since received hundreds of thousands of views.

In the clip, she shared her dating struggles with her followers, namely the hard time she's had finding a masculine man who matches her progressive views.

She opened the video, talking about "one of the saddest realizations" she has ever had, which she claimed was, "as a liberal woman, it is really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship in today’s day and age who is not a conservative."

She continued explaining how she’s looking for "a man who wants to pay on the first date, who wants to open your door, who has that want and desire to take care of you and to provide" but can’t find one "who is not a conservative."

As she spoke, text appeared at the top of the video revealing some of her scathing critiques of the men she’s been running into. She wrote, "All these men out here wanting to split the bill. ON THE FIRST DATE!!!! Whaaaaaaat."

As the video continued, @ms_petch stressed that as a liberal woman, she definitely wants her independence to be acknowledged and "not be confined or conform to the traditional female homemaker, childbearing role." Again she reiterated she wanted someone who was a natural provider who wasn’t conservative.

"And most of the men I’ve dated who do have that more natural provider masculinity about them are normally conservative," she said.

At the top, another of her thought texts popped up, reading, "Am I asking too much here?!?! To somewhat be equal yet have a man provide and take care of me to some extent?"

"So I really don’t know what to do because I don’t wanna compromise my morals and values just to find a man, but am I asking to have my cake and eat it too?" she said.

Multiple users left her frank responses in the comments. One observed, "All of the benefits, none of the responsibilities." Another mocked her logic, saying, "Why can’t I find a man with conservative values who’s not a conservative! Like what?"

Yet another made the same point, replying, "’I want a traditional man without being a traditional woman’ lol."

In subsequent videos posted to her account, ms_petch addressed her critics. In one, she insisted that she just wants a man who has some "traditional values while also being very progressive in social issues."

She also insisted that she has "so much more to offer" than being confined "to the home."

Translation: I need an ATM on legs to give me cash whenever I need it.
 

Kewpie

Senior Member
Meh, the bigger problem is that people have this either/or mentality. They have to be conservative OR liberal, and if you want something that only espouses 100% liberal values, then yeah, you’re gonna end up with someone who’s been fed a steady diet ‘toxic masculinity is the source of all ills’ and they’re gonna regurgitate what is deemed ‘socially acceptable’.

Now, if you can unclench your cheeks just a hair and accept that maybe not every one of your ideals will always line up perfectly, and you’re able to, I dunno, be an adult and accept that other people are allowed to have opinions different to your own…you might stand a chance of finding someone. There are a LOT of moderates out there, they may lean a little more conservative or a little more liberal, but very few people are 100% hardcore lefty liberal nuts, or righty conservative loonies. I tend to be a little more liberal and free spirited than my husband who leans a little more right - but we align where it’s important. We wanted a traditional marriage, but neither one of us are evangelical or demanding subservience. He likes my wild side, I like that he’s grounded. And here’s a shocker, people will change their opinions over time, becoming more rigid or more relaxed. You have to be able to grow and change with each other, or any relationship you have will be doomed.
 

PghPanther

Has No Life - Lives on TB
I want a traditional man without being a traditional woman............

"Traditional" as expressed in human gender is to conserve the basic role/function of each gender that is the direct result of in the accumulation of 22 million years of natural selection in mammals starting with lemurs and leading right through to bipedal humans.

If one wants to hold a liberal gender expression then they must abandon conserving the reality of the historical narrative in natural selection that has millions of years in development/reinforcement and survival which has been the baseline to define what we hold as traditional gender roles today.

Natures says...........one look at a naked fit young woman says that's a baby making/milk producing machine..............and one look at a naked fit young male says......that's a hunter and DNA mix insertion machine.

You can't get around that initial biological platform that has shaped and layered on top of that foundation all gender roles within society throughout human history..........

After all, you can liberate yourself to ignore nature to varying degrees................but the biological fact of nature's foundation in gender diversity won't ignore you.

Folks please look at my post above again........and notice the last line..........this weekend I heard an interview with a social Marxist activist about their goals with all that is going on from the left these days from the alphabet folks, BLM, Antifa.....you name it.

The equality of it all............the equal outcomes for gender, race, lifestyle......anything you can think of that is unequal in outcome due to any natural circumstances. All that was wrapped up in a statement this person said that throws open the curtain behind it all.............

"If the reality of nature is unequal in its results............then we will just have to remove nature"

Well, you can pretend to do that with gender surgery and hormone treatment for gender differences.............and when it gets to racial differences that presents a whole different set up circumstances...............and if you are too short or too tall........to thin or too fat then we are talking about genetic engineering to equal everything out but.............what is the only thing that will make us all equal.

Transhumanism.....

.......no gender, no race ...no genetic difference.......clones in silicon and the casting off of the carbon based body is the only way to remove nature as stated above.

That's the goal..................we become the machine.

To which I might add................

Freedom leads to inequality...............while equality has no freedom.
 

Imrik

Veteran Member
You want equality honey? Ok. Go clean out the chicken coop, then when you done with that, start mending the fences.

I’ll cook. Lemme fire up that grille and roast some cow flesh. We don’t drink them lil fruity cocktails down here. Here have a slug o this. It’s called moonshine puddin.

Here lemme show ya how to clean that fish.

Them leaves will make yer ass itch. Them over thar won’t.

Nah, she couldn’t handle being with a Southern man.
 

Raggedyman

Res ipsa loquitur
sounds like my sistard and her milque toast . . . she spends most of her time emasculating the guy and he allows it . . . then she calls me or sumbuddy else with any "man questions" that arise. how he deals with her is WAY beyond me.
 

Dennis Olson

Chief Curmudgeon
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sounds like my sistard and her milque toast . . . she spends most of her time emasculating the guy and he allows it . . . then she calls me or sumbuddy else with any "man questions" that arise. how he deals with her is WAY beyond me.
Guaranteed she’s also screwing a “bad boy” to get off. And if she gets pregnant, the milque toast won’t be the father. Of that you can be sure.
 

Dystonic

Senior Member
I'm going through this. I got divorced last year and it was amicable. Finding a decent conservative woman is tough. Even the good ones I find have bought into feminism to some degree.
I have met two that after the last two elections and Covid overload have stopped all that. They see something is wrong and feel they have lost worth due to feminism. Once they got the msm noise tuned out, they are distancing themselves from that toxic ideology.
Based on personal recent experience, around 45 is when the big revelation of feminism's false promises become crystal clear. Their could be numerous factors at play, but the DFW suburbs are full of single unsatisfied feminists realizing where the grass is greener.
 

pauldingbabe

The Great Cat
You want equality honey? Ok. Go clean out the chicken coop, then when you done with that, start mending the fences.

I’ll cook. Lemme fire up that grille and roast some cow flesh. We don’t drink them lil fruity cocktails down here. Here have a slug o this. It’s called moonshine puddin.

Here lemme show ya how to clean that fish.

Them leaves will make yer ass itch. Them over thar won’t.

Nah, she couldn’t handle being with a Southern man.

I know how to do all those things and had two babies.

Where my medal at?

:D
 
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