Story Aunt Gus and Crew's Adventure Book 5

Kathy in FL

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Oct 3 - Day 21 Shakespeare’s Stratford & Oxford​


Up early for a three-hour scenic dry to get to our stopping point, the village of Shottery. And yes, my computer has a potty mouth because the spell check kept trying to “correct” the village name to something not appropriate. I guess I’m a few years off from my sailor plans because I was a little shocked … and then irritated … when I couldn’t stop the program from making that “correction.” I sent an SOS to Pei asking her how in the heck to fix it. She laughed and walked me through it. I swear, there are days that I hate technology despite all it does for me.

Anyway, Lev asked if he could sit in the very back of the bus and used the time to get some stuff packaged up to digital send off to Tommi. She’s agreed to play gateway to keep the producers from bothering Lev so much they get in the way of him getting them way they are begging more of. I hope it works. Lev needs some relief. In fact, I told Tommi either this works or I start playing firewall on my end and no one is going to like that. She got the message and says she gets it, I’m sure she’s been in the hotseat a few times. I just really don’t like how stressed Lev is getting. He’s losing the feel for what we are supposed to be doing; losing his joy of the job he always had.
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Shottery lies in a small wooded valley on the fringes of Stratford – though in Shakespeare’s day would have been an area of fields and farms – a five-minute drive from the center of Stratford. Eventually we arrived where we were heading, a restored, timber-framed farmhouse[1] and childhood home of the wife of William Shakespeare. Her name was Anne Hathaway … not the actress but a real woman that lived .

Back in the Shakespeare’s day, it was known as Newlands Farm and had more than 90 acres of attached land; today it’s a museum surrounded by gardens. I personally found the cottage kinda surprising. It actually made me feel closer to William Shakespeare than any of the other Shakespeare sites we saw today. It made him more real or something. I don’t know. Our guide for the day suggested that perhaps one of the reasons is that the Hathaway family, still alive and kicking in the area, lived in the house for four hundred years continuously – thirteen generations of them – and only vacated it in 1917, allowing it to be acquired by the Shakespeare Birthplace Trust. That perhaps the “lived in” feeling of the place took Shakespeare out of legend and history and turned him into a real man.

The family’s stories that were handed down also helped to make him real. There were some artifacts in the house that could actually have been owned by Anne’s Elizabethan-era family. They admitted that most of the period furniture was acquired from antique dealers, but the family had bestowed some original items for the museum to use.

From there, it wasn’t much more than a five-minute drive to Stratford-upon-Avon, where Shakespeare was born and raised. OMG, talk about Shakespeare overload. And if I heard “To be or not to be” one more time the hamster would have snapped its leash. “Romeo, Romeo where for art thou” was another one that made me want to dump someone down a well. One of the guys on the tour with us had a bro-crush on “The Bard” and he was driving me nuts. Luckily I wasn’t the only one and the guide was pretty good at preventing him from taking up all the oxygen giving yet another “helpful explanation so we could understanding and enjoy” blah, blah, blah. I told Lev he was never wearing socks with Shakespeare on them. Nope. Never. He eventually got the story of my misdeed and having to play Juliet … wig, costume, and all … and I thought he was going to rupture something he was laughing so hard. I’m not recording the incident for posterity. I absolutely refuse to. And Benny is never to know. I do not want to give him that type of ammunition to use on my when he turns into a real live teenager. Shudder.

We also visited Shakespeare’s birthplace. Sadie seemed to enjoy the exhibits that told the story of how his name came to be known around the world, and she “interpreted” them so that Benny and the other younger kids seemed to lose their boredom as well. She lit up like a Christmas tree when I complimented her on it tonight.

We also had free time to check out the surrounding town at our leisure. Lev looked more relaxed than he has in a few days so that was a plus even if I did feel like I had the DT’s from all the Shakespeare being thrown at me.

Late in the afternoon we headed off to Oxford, one of the world’s most famous university towns. Even I’ve heard of Oxford and not just because it was a location used as a backdrop in the old Harry Potter films[2]. We took a guided orientation walk that hit the high notes of the cobbled streets, guarded quadrangles, celebrated libraries and archaic traditions.

People were ready for their dinner by then so we checked into our hotel. It is called The Randolph Hotel. Got cleaned up. And then ate at the hotel’s bar that was frequently used as the film setting for the BBC detective character known as Inspector Morse. And that more than anything else is why I know about Oxford. At one time Pei’s mother had a thing for English detective shows and we got corralled into getting some “culture” by watching episodes with her. I did it because it helped Pei keep the peace. The things you do for friends.
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I will admit the hotel was really neat and not at all intimidating like some of the places we’ve stayed on this tour despite its reputation. It couldn’t have been cheap but it was booked as part of the experience. We’ll be three nights here and then I get to have some fun camping … or hope to. Right now I’m about full up and praying the hamster doesn’t dress up in Elizabethan costume and terrorize me in my dreams. But if Lev doesn’t stop looking at me and trying not to snicker he’s so toast. I washed my hair or I’d simply hit the hay but it is taking forever. Might be time for a haircut even if Lev does puppy dog eyes anytime I mention it. Speaking of, look who is coming to apologize … with a promise of a backrub no less. Hmmm.


[1] Anne Hathaway's Cottage, Shottery
[2] All of Oxford’s Harry Potter Filming Locations and How To Visit Them - OxfordVisit
 

Griz3752

Retired, practising Curmudgeon
Had the Glamorgan sausages - we had a lot of UK ex-pats on our Rugby sides including some Welsh chaps.

The Glamorgans were fine when I was younger (much) but I'm not sure my digestive tract would welcome them now.

Nice to see you're sufficiently recovered to leap back into writing; welcome home Ms. Kathy . . .
 
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Kathy in FL

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Oct 4 - Day 22 Blenheim Palace and the Cotswolds​


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Another night in Oxford but we branched outside of the town. After a quick breakfast, with some of the kids obviously complaining for the sake of complaining making me want to reach over and give them a dope slap, while at the same time being grateful that Benny and Sadie had never even approached that kind of attitude, we headed for a first stop at St. Martin’s Church in Bladon. Okay fine, going for a gravesite wasn’t exactly kid stuff, but c’mon, it was the gravesite of Sir Winston Churchill. The information from the guide was pretty interesting as well. Churchill explicitly chose to be quietly buried there, near his parents’ graves.
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From the church we went to Churchill’s birthplace, Blenheim Palace and Park. Made me wonder once again about the places Sadie was raised and how it affected her upbringing. Blenheim Palace is an 18th-century palace for cripes sake. It was built as a celebration of the English victory over Louis XIV’s French troops at the Battle of Blenheim. Since the early 1700s, it’s been a home to over 11 Dukes of Marlborough (Churchill was the grandson of the seventh).
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We had a private guided tour and the guy leading us around was definitely “English proper” but not stiff. He even managed to get the kids interested in what they were seeing while he shared the history of the palace and its grounds. For some reason I took a liking to all the different tapestries in the place. Some of them were huge and all handmade and they all told a story of some type. I particularly liked the “Victories” ones that celebrated one of the Duke’s victory over the French armies of “The Sun King,” Louis XIV. We all got the wiggles out walking around some of the 2,000 acre estate.

All the kids were ready for lunch, ours and the others, after the tour. Not a few of the adults were seemed to be edging up on the hangries as well. I keep changing my mind about whether I enjoy being with this particular group of people or not. On the one hand it is nice that Benny and Sadie have some peer exposure. On the other … I’d like to knock heads when some of them act like blockheads. And I don’t know whether it is the kids or the parents that I get irritated with the most for not curbing the “fits and starts” some of them get up to.

Lunch was another quicky of “fish and chips” with our crew being provided a salad with shrimp. I made sure we left our table clean and pushed in our chairs. One of the other families left their space looking like hogs had been rooting around. Grandmother would have been horrified. She started out as a hard-working waitress and she always made sure I understood what that meant from the wait-staff’s side of the equation. Just piss-poor manners is what Dad would have called it and Grandfather would have called it even worse. The one thing those three had in common was that there was no reason not to be a neat person with neat habits. It made me itch to help but I didn’t want to create an issue so I just made sure to pick up the napkins that had been left on the floor and shrug apologetically at the guy who was left to bus the table. It has made me think less of that particular family and I’m more determined to make sure that our family does better. It is now on my list. I’m not a snob and I’m not a neat-freak though I am a minimalist. But that’s rude and I don’t want whatever they have going on to rub off on the example I am trying to set for Benny. Sadie barely hid her opinion but her manners covered what she couldn’t hide. I don’t think it is a class thing, more like she’s been on the receiving end of people’s thoughtlessness so she’s more sensitive to it. Enough of the parental type pondering. I’ll keep an eye out to make sure it isn’t a problem and that will have to be good enough for now.
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From there we went to a place called Woodstock Village. Nope, different Woodstock than in the US with a completely different vibe according to Lev who has been to both places. The Woodstock Village we went today was all “Cotswolds” with dove-grey cottages, a church, a village green, and a park said to have once been Henry II’s royal hunting grounds. For adult consumption our guide glossed over that it was also a place of seclusion for Ol’ Henry’s royal mistress, but over the heads of the younger kids you definitely got the picture. From there it was back to the hotel for free time to have dinner on our own.

Tomorrow is a completely free day. We’re purposing it so Lev can have a day to package up some product for the big bosses and I can get in some much needed housekeeping chores. Sadie, the wonderful girl, helped out by talking to the “under staff” at the hotel to find some local eats that wouldn’t break the bank but still tasted good and met our dietary criteria. She saved Benny some pain – and the rest of us his resulting behavioral issues – by noticing they’d put “Brown Sauce” on his wrap that we’d ordered in. Brown sauce is not gluten free, and it apparently got mixed up with someone else’s to-go order. No one else’s had it on there. Rather than walk it back to the pub it came from. Everyone still ate, I simply traded my fish for his chicken. I found out Sadie still called the pub to let them know and they apologized, and the owner was glad to know his grandson hadn’t been faking, that he had made the special order as instructed. She told them all was good and that we’d be back tomorrow. Maybe a little high handed but she’s old enough I suppose as it is likely something I would have done at her age … and had when Townzen accidentally got served ketchup. He used to be worse than Benny and me about red dye. It was nearly 24 hours of peeling him off the ceiling eveb with an extra dose of meds in his system.

And now I’m all organized for tomorrow. This log entry was the last of today’s duties. I’m heading to bed after a few stretches to get the kinks out. I feel like it has been too long since I’ve had a real workout.
 

Kathy in FL

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Oct 5 - Day 23 Work and Catch up Day​


Not much of import to record in the log today. Had a quiet day in Oxford. I think everyone needed it. Not sure what the rest of the group did. I suspect a lot of them slept the day away when they weren’t eating since it had been mentioned in passing yesterday. On the other hand, I did laundry and worked on the itinerary and Benny’s portfolio. Sadie worked on her own schoolwork and then we dealt with her laundry and added to her pictorial portfolio. I even found the time to get in a good workout and Sadie joined me, complaining she was losing the strength she’d built up when we were in Africa. I need to make time to fit that in somehow, even if it means giving up something else. Lev gave me a humdinger of a kiss for thinking of him and he put the day to good use catching up on some editing and getting things packaged up to send to the digital drop point thereby getting them off his back even if Tommi was proving as good as her word about working to keep the begging and interruptions from the producers down to a minimum.

Everything is freshly washed, folded, with a couple of pieces mended. Despite the new wardrobe and less rigorous activities than the safari, I still find our clothes taking hard use. Might need to add a few pieces so we aren’t using the same clothing items quite so much. I hate to do it. First there is the budget. We’ve still got money in it and of course Sadie has her own “pocket money” but if we spend it now, we might not have it if we need it later. Plus, it is more space to haul things around that is the problem. If nothing else, we may need to add a few items to layer our clothes with more. A daily high of barely 59 degrees F is not my idea of a good time if I have to do it cold. I miss the heat of the safari. Brrr.
 

Kathy in FL

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Oct 6 - Day 24 Stonehenge and the Jurassic Coast​


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Maybe I should have a bucket list or something. Today was pretty cool and if I did, I would have been able to knock off a couple of items.

First thing we got up and had a full breakfast. Good thing, because food – at least food I could feed our crew – was difficult to find during most of the day. This morning we traveled to … wait for it … Stonehenge. Now, that said, it wasn’t quite what I expected. In all the pictures it is in this lonely and empty field. Field? Yeah. Lonely and empty? You gotta be kidding me. Try the total opposite of that. It was wall-to-wall tourists everywhere you looked.
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It made it difficult for Lev to get any money shots, to the point he thought the day was a lost cause. I’m sure I’ve mentioned a time or three being stronger than I look and I don’t exactly look like the weak princess type to start with. Yep. I gave Lev a boost on my shoulders for a couple of minutes so he could get some shots that he could work with as far as angles go. Afterwards I saw one man look at his female companion and she said, “In. Your. Dreams me lad.” Lev was too focused to be embarrassed until later, but it wasn’t hard to cure his man pride ouch. I might be getting a little too good at this. He kinda looked more than a little gobsmacked for a while and wasn’t making a whole lotta sense. Whatever it takes.

I also gave Benny and Sadie a boost with Sadie getting a ridiculous case of the giggles when I told her to pretend she was a cheerleader playing the top of a pyramid. Then told her I’d given Pei a boost more than once so not to sweat it.

“Really? You aren’t just saying that?”

“Nope. You’ve seen her when I’ve given her a digital call. You see how she is built. We were like … um, I don’t know what they call it where you’ve grown up, but a lot of the adults called us ‘Mutt and Jeff.’ We were opposites that worked. I was the ladder for a lot of my buddies.”

“Why?” she asked curiously.

“Because we were teenagers and too lazy to go get a ladder when we could have fun freaking the local adults out.”

She got a laugh out of that. I guess she had been expecting some kind of deep and meaningful friends-do-for-friends explanation. And well, yeah. But like I said, we were teens and kinda goofy. I’m keeping the stories of the human catapult to myself, however.

I will admit that the stones gave off weird vibes, or maybe it was all the people’s reaction to the stones giving off weird vibes. They were cool to see but I wasn’t sorry to get out of there either. I enjoyed the walk to and from the area, something that most of the tourist guides don’t tell you about[1]. The visitor center is designed to be accessible for those with challenges which, I admit, really was above and beyond and I’ve put it in the blog post along with a link to the site that explains all of the accommodations. But because of that, people that were able were … um … encouraged to use their feet to walk from the visitor center to the stones. But it was all worth it and I still have the free audio guide on my phone[2].

Several of our group spent time getting some eats from the café there. I was surprised to find gluten-free sandwiches on the menu, but the price was about like such a place would be in the states; expensive for what you were getting. Lunch wasn’t included today so if I wanted to get the crew some food it was coming out of our pocket. Lev gave me “that” look … the one that says I didn’t need to pinch the pennies hard enough to make ol’ Abe cry. Fine. I got Lev and Benny sandwiches, but Sadie and I just weren’t feeling it. We cheated and split a gluten free brownie … we were both jonesing. I gotta find that girl some dark chocolate and hide it in the first aid kit.

We didn’t spend all the time at the visitor center stuffing our faces. There were several displays that explained the possible origins of the stones as well as the ancient people who lived in the area that helped to explain what we heard on the audio guide.

The other thing we all had to do was visit the “loo”. Our guide helped us to time it so we got in when the lines were shorter. Notice I didn’t say when there wasn’t a line. And just like God made little green apples, the men who built the bathroom areas didn’t seem to grasp that you need at least twice as many stalls in the women’s side as you do the men’s side. Our guide knew her business (today’s was female) and helped us to not freaking spend the entire time allotment desperately seeking relief.

After we all got back on the minibus we traveled further west towards my reward for being a good girl. Our day ended in the village of Chagford — within Dartmoor National Park[3] — where we were provided a nice dinner we ate campfire-style. Then some of our group opted to stay in a local motel sort of set up and some of us are camping[4] for the night.

Most of our group was exhausted. We’d done maybe … maybe … six miles of walking today. I was surprised how exhausted some of them acted. Me? I was energized and needed to get rid of some wiggles that had been building up.
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It was a different kind of park. No trees. The guide called it open moorlands. Still, it was a cool place both figuratively and literally. A high of 53F and lows are going to dip into the 40s. I don’t care. I’m loving it and am going to put down this log and go on a night hike with a local guide. Lev and the kids are staying in camp. For once Benny is tired – I hope he isn’t coming down with something – and Sadie asked if she could stay in camp as well so they can work on their book. It might not be health so much as company. The other kids were all a bit much today. They weren’t particularly horrible, but I get the feeling that Benny and Sadie are needing a break from them. Fine by me. As long as they don’t turn into complete introverts that avoid people we’ll deal with whatever they need. I’m actually glad they don’t mope because they don’t have “mates” around all the time.


[1] Plan your visit at Stonehenge
[2] Stonehenge Audio Guides
[3] Home | Dartmoor
[4] Camping | Dartmoor
 

Kathy in FL

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Oct 7 - Day 25 Dartmoor National Park​


Okay, so the ground was a little hard, but the air was fresh and the only sound was the occasional snore from the next tent over. Best thing is that we got to spend the day out and about in nature and we are back in our camp tonight … or for some they are in a pub somewhere exercising their proclivities.

Today the group was split, with some of us including our crew, doing the nature thing, and the other part of the group exploring Dartmoor a little differently.

Last night the night-hike guide told us that The Hound of the Baskervilles, a Sherlock Holmes mystery, was inspired by the landscape of Dartmoor. Cool beans. I added it to a possible reading list. Sadie said she’d already read it. Of course. But she also said she’d see if there was an “age-appropriate” version on youtube. They have audio books so I left her to it. If she’s willing to make that stuff fun for Benny then count me grateful. I’m doing good to keep the itinerary, blog, and log up plus make sure Benny’s portfolio stays current. I know I should add reading to my own list of self-improvement but I’d like to know when I am supposed to find the time. I’d rather do a couple hundred push ups than “read for pleasure.” I need to get beyond that but like I said, when am I supposed to find the time? I’m doing good to utilize the thesaurus on occasion to expand the vocab.

Today our crew and two other couples (no other kids) were picked up by a local guide who proceeded to give us the time of our lives. We enjoyed high moorland vistas (see … thesaurus ya’ll), immersed ourselves in the history of Dartmoor, and did a combination of hikes to take in the surroundings and deal with the wiggles. The other two couples were also photography teams and they and Lev helped each other to get some great shots while I just enjoyed the surroundings with the kids, and occasionally played prop.

Around 12:30 we had a good lunch at what was billed as a traditional Dartmoor country inn. I was a little surprised at how easy it was to pick gluten-free foods for our crew. After lunch we headed out to enjoy more local folklore and visit ancient sites dating back to what our guide told us was the middle Bronze Age and Medieval Briton. While we took some walks during this time, it was mostly focused on the “picturesque villages” in the area. Then around 4 o’clock we ate again, this time a traditional Devonshire Cream Tea. I thought by necessity we’d be abstaining, but our guide had a surprise; gluten-free scones[1].

I also learned that the English can be particular about their “tea time.” I thought I had learned that while on safari but apparently some people are as snobby about their tea as Americans can be about their coffee. It was like they were speaking ancient Greek when they started going on about it and Sadie whispered, “I’ll explain it later. They’re just being floot.”

I whispered back, “You do realize I have no idea what you just said either.”

I guess she thought I was being funny, but “floot”? Really. Geez I feel old. I had to look it up and it’s slang for snob. Did I mention I feel old? I’m only twenty-three for gosh sake.

What I do remember is that the only difference from the all-important Devonshire Cream Tea and a Cornwall Cream Tea is the order you put stuff together. Seriously. I’m thinking some people have a little too much time on their hands if that triggers them. Both versions serve the same items: tea, scones, jam, and clotted cream. In Devon, the scones are split in two and topped with cream followed by jam. In Cornwall, the split scones are topped with jam and then cream. That’s the only difference … whether to put the jam on first, or whether you put the cream on first. Crazy. I was more interested in knowing what the heck clotted cream was. Didn’t sound the least appetizing but Sadie promised me it was.

If I have to describe the stuff it is a dairy product made from full-cream milk that is the consistency somewhere between butter and whipped cream. You can buy the stuff in jars and I suppose I’ll try and put some in the next box to our drop point … assuming it makes it through customs. For some bizarre reason I’m told real clotted cream is illegal in the States. Okay, fine, it isn’t made with pasteurized milk. But I grew up drinking raw milk and it never did a bad thing to me. The Wainright brand was really good and creamy and you could buy it in store in Live Oak which is where Grandmother would do most of her shopping. I don’t know, it just seems kinda … er … silly. Just stick a label on it and if grown adults want to take a chance let ‘em.

After teatime we took a few more walks before being dropped off in Chagford for a village church tour and then dinner at a country pub. Good thing there was more walking involved or I’m going to wind up bouncing around the rest of England.

Back to camp that wasn’t far from the village, and I suppose I need to get to bed. It feels like rain and in the morning we head out to Cornwall and Falmouth.


[1] Gluten-Free Scones
 

Kathy in FL

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Oct 8 - Day 26 Castles and Cornwall​


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Early morning and I was glad to get to the hotel tonight to take a shower. It had rained last night and I felt kindy sticky and groady most of the day.

We drove into Cornwall, known for its wave-swept coast and “charming” fishing villages. Our first stop was a visit to the ruins of Tintagel Castle[1], a place associated with King Arthur.
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In a nutshell … or according to the travel brochure … Tintagel Castle is a cliff-top medieval fortification located on the peninsula of Tintagel Island adjacent to the village of Tintagel (Trevena), in North Cornwall. A castle was on the site by Richard, 1st Earl of Cornwall in the 13th century, and has since fallen into disrepair and ruin and eventually into a modern tourist attraction. Pretty picturesque all things considered but I threatened to tie Benny to me and Lev both if he played monkey on the crazy sets of stairs that didn’t have handrails and looked about as safe as sticking your head in a lion’s mouth.
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The whole King Arthur thing threw me off a little bit and made me think that it was just “legend” and fairy tale type guessing to dress things up for the tourists. But two archaeological digs on the grounds in 2016 and 2017 uncovered the outlines of a palace from the 5th or early 6th century, with evidence of writing and of articles brought in from Spain and from the eastern Mediterranean. That means the area was settled when Arthur was supposed to have lived. Our guide also told us that Arthur[2] may have been a real person, if not exactly like in the stories written about him much later. And was also supposed to have been from the area. Things that make you go hmmmm.

After lunch, we continued driving deeper into Cornwall and along its coastline. They call it “rugged.” Uh huh, it sure is. The guide and driver were good and made sure there were plenty of opportunities to stop and take pictures. Trust me when I say the gray weather made it very atmospheric.

We ended the day with dinner and a performance of traditional Cornish folk music in this place called Falmouth. It’s a port town that was established in 1613. The town is located near the twin forts of Pendennis Castle and St Mawes Castle, which guard the entrance to the harbor known as Carrick Roads. The town was originally called Peny-cwm-cuic and no I cannot pronounce that tongue twister. I learned all of that during the musical performance. I called it history and geography when Benny could answer my questions while we were unpacking for our three-night stay in this location.

It's my turn in the en suite bathroom’s shower so I’m off and then will hit the hay after my hair dries. Lev is already listing to the side a bit and the kids are as well in the connecting room. We’re supposed to do some more hiking tomorrow. All I can do is hope the other kids in this group are a little more with it than they were today.


[1] Visit Tintagel Castle
[2] https://owlcation.com/humanities/who-was-the-real-king-arthur
 

Kathy in FL

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Oct 9 - Day 27 Coastal Cornwall​


Today reminded me a bit of hiking in some of the national parks when Benny was small. Geez, it’s only about three years ago but it seems a lifetime has passed since then. This morning we took a bodacious hike along the Cornish coast. Yesterday it was the Tintagel Castle Loop. Today we focused on the Polzeath to Port Isaac portion of the coast.

It is a 10-mile stretch, and our bus paced us and eventually had to pick up some of the group that couldn’t make it but our crew wasn’t the only one that successfully completed the trek. This hike had it all; rugged cliffs, deserted beaches, panoramic views, and finished up in what our guide claimed was one of Cornwall’s most picturesque villages. During the hike we took in some famous landmarks such as Pentire Point, the Rumps, the abandoned village of Port Quinn, and a lot more besides. It is a good thing we started early because it took nearly five hours to complete, and people were jonesing for the lunch soon afterwards.
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Lunch was at this place that was on the water in an 18th Century building. It had an interesting name; the Golden Lion[1]. Most everyone had the traditional fish and chips but our crew shared a huge platter of Cornish mussels and a plate of sweet potato fries. It sounds a weird combination I suppose but it wasn’t much different from what everyone else was eating, just without the gluten.

We walked off lunch strolling through town, poking around in the shops, and even managed to grab some Cornish ice cream[2], a real specialty in the area. Instead of straight milk or straight cream, it is made with clotted cream.

Afterwards we went back to Falmouth for free-time on our own and I heard most people admit they were going to have a “lie-down” before dinner. I knew Lev needed to work and I looked at Benny and Sadie and they both gave me identical Cheshire Cat grins. We were still up for getting rid of the wiggles and went out exploring.

This is what I learned about Falmouth while we were out and about. Situated on the third deepest natural harbor in the world, Falmouth has always had a strong connection to the sea. It started as a fishing village and then grew into one of the most important ports in the British Empire. From 1688 to 1852 Falmouth operated as a Royal Mail packet station bringing in mail and messages from all over the British Empire. The wind-powered ships in operation back then also carried goods and passengers generally arriving at the Custom House Dock. But eventually wind-power had to give way to the superior steam powered vessels and the packet service was closed.

However, the decline of the packet service did not interrupt the steady stream of visitors to town. The arrival of the railway in 1863 really opened up Falmouth as a holiday destination. The local town council was quick to expand its natural amenities with promenades and gardens as beautification projects and to give people something to do. Falmouth was also a haven for smugglers, in particular contraband tobacco as evidenced by the King’s Pipe on the Custom House Quay.

It got dark early due to the time of year and because of cloud cover so after mostly just walking along Market Street that is right off the water, we returned to the hotel to find that Lev was just growing concerned we hadn’t gotten back.

I sent the kids to clean up. “Uh … you coulda called or text’d,” I reminded him.

“I don’t want you to think I’m dogging you.”

That brought me up short and I gave him a deeper look. “Okay, what’s up? ‘Cause you know we are long passed all that.”

After trying to play it off he sighed. “Tommi said something when I packaged up some stuff and sent it out.”

“Tommi.” I was wondering what was going on and was about to ask when he added.

“One of the big investors are thinking of pulling out.”

Putting two and two together I said, “So that means the project is ending early.”

“Uh … no. The other investors said they’d cover any gap.”

“Okay. I give up. Does it have to do with who the investor is or why they are thinking of pulling out?”

“Mebbe. Apparently someone named Beaumont is courting them for a project that is supposed to be more lucrative because it is with the cruise industry.”

It took super human Gus effort not to roll my eyes. “Oh. Beaumont. As in those Beaumonts and they obviously are still jealous.”

Lev blinked and then shrugged. “Mebbe.”

“No maybe’s about it. They can’t have you so they’re going to try and screw up any project you are associated with. Talk about your sour grapes when they are the ones that created the problem. And I’ve been reading.”

Lev looked at me strangely because he knows I dislike causing myself to bleed from the eyes.

I told him, “I’m serious. I’m trying to understand what you need because you know, you could ask for more instead of making it so easy on me.”

“I’m not making …”

“Yes, you do but that’s not what I’m talking about. I mean I’ve been reading up on this travel industry … film and photography and stuff like that. Not just the how to’s but how it all works and how the professional parts fit together. The cruise industry is a big player, but not as big as they used to be. There’s commercials and stuff trying to grab people’s attentions but that’s not going to create the kind of money the Beaumont’s are said to be looking for … and needing. The Journal of Tourism says …”

“Gus …”

“Let me finish. The Journal of Tourism talks about market share and how the cruise industry has changed from creating their own content to using content produced by some of the big travel channels. They’ve changed from pushing their own tours even and instead use third party providers. I don’t see them paying big chunks of payola for the kind of work you do. You are doing documentaries broken down into episodes that are being made for both digital and televised releases. Heck, they are taking some of the work you and the guys did in Hawaii and putting together something like the old Disney documentary type movies for one of the new kids’ channels. So, unless they have something like that in the works, it is all hot air and you just need to stop letting them poke at you. You’re good Lev Hargis. I mean goooood. If that investor doesn’t see the difference that’s his problem, and I’m sure the Big Bosses have lawyers to remind him of any funding contract he might have signed.”

Lev slowly smiled. “That’s my Gus.”

“Yes, I am. Hungry?”

“Starving.”

Despite Lev’s talent, he’s probably like a lot of artistic personalities out there. Yeah, you can be proud of your work and know its worth. But sometimes you can shortchange your self-worth. I made a mental note to feel Tommi out on the Beaumont thing. I’ve avoided asking Townzen for certain kinds of favors. It isn’t that I don’t think he’d do them, it is just I don’t want to put a friend in that position and Townzen can be “all in” once he agrees to something and I don’t want to put him at any risk. But … I’m not totally against going that direction either. I hate the hinky feelings those people give me. I hate the way they do things. It goes against all my training … from childhood on up. I need to think on this.
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I’m thankful that Sadie found our place for dinner tonight. Called Fizz and Chips. Cute. It was a budget- and family-friendly place in a pub-type setting, or so went the description. I wasn’t totally sure what to expect but they baked the cod rather than coasting it with stuff and then deep frying it. They also offered gluten free condiments which is something many restaurants forget about. Good food for a good price even if it was more expensive than dipping a line in the river and cooking it myself. I’m not back home. I’m here. And I need to be willing to tow the line even if it does occasionally make me feel uncomfortable.

Tomorrow is our last day in Falmouth so I did a little spot cleaning tonight and made sure that there wasn’t a mess to have to deal with tomorrow night. I also stuck some stomach aide and a few snacks in my pack for just in case. Part of tomorrow’s tour involves eating things I wouldn’t normally have on the menu. We’ll have to see how things go.


[1] The Golden Lion - Port Isaac
[2] https://www.cornishhorizons.co.uk/guides/cornish-ice-cream
 

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Oct 10 - Day 28 St. Michael's Mount​


1732681363205.pngGuess what Lev and Benny were able to eat today? Cornish pasties!! Our guides are kick ass. Okay, maybe my sailor’s mouth was a bit much but seriously, they both went out of their way to make sure that we could be part of the morning’s activity which was learning all about Cornwall's most famous culinary contribution — the pasty. We got a demonstration (and sampling!) of how these traditional one-handed meals are made.

Not only were the Cornish pasties gluten-free, but we picked up a bag o’ food to have as our lunch while everyone else had a different picnic version. The place was called Made Marion[1] and we ordered to-go some more pasties, sausage rolls, a couple of individual mince pies to split, and some tea cakes. Trust me, it was better than the boxed lunches that the rest of the group chose.
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From the bakery we headed off to conquer St. Michael's Mount, a rock island first inhabited by monks more than 1,500 years ago. Our guide said that a short way to describe and explain the place is to think of it as a monastery that became a castle that become a home.

Walking is the only way to access the island during this time of year. This means, on some days, because of how the tides fall during daylight hours, you can only visit the island for a short period. Occasionally, you can’t visit at all. This means it is important to check tide times before your visit to see if and when the place is open.
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You cross at low tide by using the ancient causeway to walk across to the island. You step onto the cobbles and follow a path used by pilgrims, traders, titled people, and villagers over many hundreds of years. The causeway is uneven and tricky to navigate. At high tide, the sea covers the causeway and the island is closed during that time. The causeway is open for around four hours each day, depending on the tides and weather.

There’s not a lot of time to explore. It takes about fifteen minutes to cross so you automatically lose thirty minutes of the max four hours you have. And then there are the crowds. Even in the off-season there are more than enough people wanting to cross so you can get bunched up.

Our guide said we were lucky to arrive when we did because they are closing down the castle, terraces, and church next week for winter maintenance. That might explain the crowds today. Some of the neat things we saw in the castle were a Samurai Warrior suit of armor, a clock that tells you the time of the tide as well as the hour of the day, a frieze with hunting scenes, including an ostrich munching on a horseshoe, a piece of Napoleon’s coat worn at the Battle of Waterloo, the sofa where Queen Victoria sat as the housekeeper entertained her to a cup of tea, a mummified cat, and an etched windowpane, where a young woman checked the authenticity of her diamond engagement ring before she accepted a proposal.
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The garden terraces weren’t what I would call a garden or a terrace. They are basically cliffs that have hardy vegetation planted on them. Still neat but I think calling them garden terraces was a stretch. There were a few narrow paths but those were already closed for seasonal maintenance.

The church was first constructed in 1125 … yeah, it’s old. Really, really old. The current building isn’t much younger as it was constructed in the 14th Century. There are still remnants of the oldest stuff despite renovations that have taken place over the centuries. For instance, on the wall behind the altar are what the guide explained were three alabaster panels made in Nottingham in the 15th century. The central one is still especially detailed and “portrays the severed head of John the Baptist on a charger being received in Heaven by the Holy Trinity and assorted saints.” Yeah, I had to quote the guide on that one because I’m not sure how to put it in my own words and have it make sense. There’s only so many ways to say it and not wound completely stupid.

There is a lot of history and stories attached to the island, and not just in the buildings. The Cornish story of Jack the Giant Killer is part of local legend. It goes something like this: A gruesome beast who terrorized the land, Cormoran the giant made the Mount his home, stealing cattle when his tummy began to rumble. Only Jack, a young lad from Marazion – the town peering back at the Mount from the mainland – was brave enough to rid the town of its curse. It’s said that one moonlit night, he made his way across the cobbled causeway to lay a trap, before luring the monster out with a blast on his horn. I’m not one for stories like that but some of my crewmates would have had fun repeating it around a beach bonfire.

The stories don’t end there. From as far back as 495AD, tales tell of sailors lured by mermaids onto the rocks, or guided to safety by an apparition of St Michael. The patron saint of fishermen, it’s said the Archangel Michael appeared on the western side of the island – below where the entrance to the castle is today – to ward fishermen from certain peril. It’s a story which has brought pilgrims, monks and people of faith to the island ever since.

It was a real pile up trying to get off the island before it closed down. The people who run things weren’t mean or rude, but you could definitely tell you were to obey the rules and vacate the premises with all due haste. Apparently there are people that live on the island too and they won’t the lookie lous gone so they can have some off time. I mean I get it. Doing the tourist thing in Key West was something I had to do to support Benny and me and when I was off the last thing I wanted to do was deal with the tourist crowds.

It was after St. Michael’s Mount that we stopped to have our picnic and then it was back to the hotel for free time. None of our crew was interested in a full dinner but another round of Cornish ice cream was a perfect period to the day.

Everyone is packed and ready to go early in the morning. I’m feeling better than I have been because I’m clocking some decent milage to work off the wiggles. Today I got in nearly eight miles between one thing and another. My backside doesn’t feel quite so bouncy either. The button on the waistband of a certain pair of pants isn’t in quite so much danger of popping off and putting someone’s eye out either, always a good thing.


[1] Gluten Free Cornish Pasty & Savouries - Made Marion Gluten Free
 

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Oct 11 - Day 29 Bath​

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One of the families in our group dropped out. I was about to turn in when there was a commotion in the hall and someone yelling “don’t move him!” Training kicked in and after telling Lev and the kids to stay put I jumped out in the hall in time to keep a mom from our group from clocking another woman I didn’t recognize.

“Whoa, whoa, whoa. Ladies!”

Recognizing my voice, the mom turned to me and started “explaining” in near hysterics, demanding I help her with her boy since I’d already taped him back together once after he’d taken a tumble running on one of the trails a few days earlier.

Cutting through the decibels and drama I explained, “She’s trying to make sure your son doesn’t have a neck or back fracture or a cracked skull. She’s just focused. Let me give her a hand and you … er … your husband is looking a little green. Take it blood doesn’t do much for him. Your daughter isn’t going to be able to hold him up much longer.”

Energies redirected I was able to help the woman who was a retired military nurse “on holiday with her gent” to get the boy to stop reacting to his parents’ reaction – scalp wounds bleed a lot – and to calm down. The boy in question was between Sadie and Benny’s age and had been one of the ones that wasn’t exactly overjoyed to be along for the ride with the rest of the group. He’d been wanting to go home to play sports with his mates at school instead of being around all the “old people”. Well, he was granted part of his wish, he was going home, but playing sports is going to be on the backburner until after the holidays at least.

I doubt there is any lasting harm, but his ankle is badly sprained and so was his wrist. He dented the wall with his head which required stitches. He’d been screwing around last night and instead of taking the elevator, was racing his family to the bottom using the stairs. About half-way down he lost his footing with predictable results.

Sadie and Benny didn’t have much to say except a small breath of relief. The kid had started to become a problem … intentionally of course to let the world know of his displeasure … and none of our crew are real tolerant of that kind of behavior. He’d learned not to poke me after I’d let him “accidentally” run into me and I didn’t catch him when he bounced off and fell over like a cartoon character. All I said was, “You might want to watch what you’re doing.” The kid has behavioral issues but isn’t stupid and got the message. Unfortunately he simply changed targets to his sister with his parents only partially able to get him to tone it back. I suspect that the kid has a surprise waiting in store in the future. The sister looks like she’s about to grow up into a real bruiser like her mom.

Lucky for the rest of us everyone was able to get a good night’s sleep after the spectacle and we made it out on time this morning for the long freaking drive from Falmouth to Bath, booked as one of Britain’s most beautiful cities.

We made a few stops for photo opportunities along the way but mostly we just sat back and rode. Some napped, some found other things to do. Reminded me a bit of the long drives on the safari and the kids knew what to do with that kind of time and so did Lev and I. He worked on editing since the road was good and smooth and I worked on our different types of paperwork … and emailed Tommi to ask if there was anything I could do or needed to know.

We arrived in Bath in time for lunch (and live la-te-da string music) at the Pump Room Restaurant[1]. It was a “posh” place set within the city’s ancient Roman Baths complex. It has been around for over two hundred years, and I wasn’t sure if that meant they were just that good, or if it was an overrated tourist trap. Turned out to be somewhere in the middle. Rather than a true lunch meal, we had their version of brunch. Wasn’t bad, just made me glad I had stuffed a couple of gluten-free meal bars in my pack instead of leaving them in the luggage.

Our table had two poached eggs, lightly toasted muffin (they didn’t have a gluten-free version so we abstained), Hollandaise sauce, choice of which each of us adding either grilled Wiltshire ham, Scottish smoked salmon, grilled mushroom and wilted spinach, or crushed avocado, seared cherry tomatoes, vegan mayonnaise, pea shoot salad. Lev had the salmon, Benny the ham, Sadie opted for grilled mushrooms, and I had the vegan option of crush avocado. Like I said, it wasn’t bad, just kinda … er … fluffy and posh. If we hadn’t been so hungry by that point it would have been hard to eat in those surroundings.
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I could have seriously used a good hike but that wasn’t the plan for the remainder of the day. We were touring the Roman Baths[2], where the city got its name from. I wasn’t sure what to expect … super serious history stuff or kinda over the top tourist trap. I’ll just quote what our guide said before we entered:

The Roman Baths are the symbol of the city. A huge complex for bathing and socializing, the Roman Baths are some of the best-preserved Roman remains in the world, where 1,170,000 liters of steaming spring water, reaching 46°C, still fills the bathing site every single day. It is a site of extensive ruins, and an interactive museum filled with many treasures and visual snippets that transport you back to Roman times and the lives of the Aquae Sulis people. You will walk on ancient pavements as the Romans did 2,000 years ago, and explore ancient chambers historically housing such points of interest as the changing rooms and the tepid plunge pools.

I was surprised at the amount of time it took to get through everything without rushing and skipping sections. Some of the interactive stuff was pretty cool. The one thing they mentioned multiple times was not to touch the water. Apparently, these days, it isn’t just unhygienic but unhealthy. Bird poop as well as lead pipes have pretty much put the kibosh on the site ever being used for potable water purposes. To think, Romans … real ancient Romans … got nekked and cleaned up in those pools.

When I’m home I think of the US and the Barrymore family history as “old”. The safari didn’t really change that as we were more focused on the animals and adventure than too many other things. But once in England I’ve started realizing that the US is only old in comparison to me and my personal history. In comparison to other places, it is still an infant. All that philosophizing makes my head hurt. It’s interesting but I’m not sure I’m ready, or even want, to “dig deep” on the thoughts. Benny on the other hand was enthralled. The other kids that remained on the tour group were bored. To them the age of their surroundings is a normal part of their thoughts and study. And Sadie was seeing it through Benny’s eyes and it became new for her. Lev was capturing it all from behind the camera lens. Me? I was watching the three of them and being thankful they were mine to take care of.

I do wonder a bit what my old crew would think of the situation Lev and I have built for ourselves. We keep in touch through social media but more that they are commenting on what I post rather than sharing where they are at. I hope I’m not making them feel they can’t. Or maybe I’m creating a break they need from their normal day-to-day. Geez, too many emotions. All I can do is keep my motivations good and stay true to myself. I’ve only been ghosted by a few of the old crew. Probably not intentionally so much as life is catching up with them the same way it did with me when I first started the adventures with Benny. I do know one is intentional, but I can’t help if someone thinks I’m showing off. I’m not. I’m just dealing with what life and the Creator has handed me.
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And speaking of, we returned from 70AD to check in to our “tastefully restored Regency-period townhouse hotel located on historic Queen Square.” It’s called The Francis Hotel and was so “tasteful” it made my teeth hurt. Don’t take that the wrong way. It really was a nice place, just not my style. I felt like a lower-class interloper. No one else seemed to notice so I haven’t said anything. Maybe it is the gray color scheme. Reminds me of another place or two we’ve stayed.

I will say that dinner was the best meal of the day. The place was called Yak Yeti Yak. Nope, not kidding. The name alone made me decide to give it a try, and that might have been the point. The fact that the cuisine was Nepalese was just icing on the cake. Something new and something we could eat without too much fuss and feathers as one of the older ladies on the tour is fond of saying.

We ate family-style meaning we shared entrees, along with one of the older couples. They actually asked if they could join us. Found out later it was because they preferred our “charming children” to the others and were curious as cats to learn our story. They had some fantastic traveling stories themselves and had done a lot of it as a family before their kids went off to university. Seeing them it made me realize that even when the kids no longer need me Lev and I can still have a life together doing what we enjoy doing. Cool beans.

Tonight and another we are here at the Francis and then we are supposed to move on to Northern Ireland. News isn’t happy with the area so hopefully we’ll be able to work around things.



[1] Home Page - Searcys Pumproom Bath
[2] Roman Baths | 2,000 years of history are waiting for you to discover and explore.
 

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All of you are part of my personal blessings. Life gets hard. It gets complicated. The things I normally do to deal with the chaos don't want to work (e.g., writing). But ... I always know you folks are here. You encourage me and lift me up. So, thank you. For being my friends ... and conspirators when need be. I appreciate and am thankful for you more than there are words to express.
 

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Oct 13 - Day 31 Hampton Court & London Bound​


This morning was an adventure all its own. We had to be at the Bath Spa train station for a 5:35 am train to Reading where we transferred to train that took us to the Richmond station. We hurriedly got off the train at 7:44 am and barely made the bus that pulled out at 8:02 am. Twenty-five minutes to Kingston tgeb from Kingston to Hampton Court station. From there is was a five minute walk to our real destination … Hampton Court Palace[1] … but before we could go there we had to go to this place called Baggage Stasher to stow our luggage until it was time to pick up our ride into London proper. Sounds like a Chinese fire drill but it wasn’t nearly as bad as it could have been.

Hampton Court Palace was the home – one of the homes – of Henry VIII. Yeah, the guy with all the wives, some of whom lost their heads. Despite the rushing around we managed to get there right as they opened at 10:00 am.

I’m only going to be able to hit the high notes of what we saw at the palace for the blog. I’m just too wiped out after strolling the grounds and places like the Great Hall, Haunted Gallery, the kitchens, the Chapel Royal, William III’s apartments, and all of the other nooks and crannies we got into at the palace. Lev has enough photos and film that we can make our own tour book if we want to. Listen to me. At the palace. Geez.

Anyway, if I wasn’t so tired the hamster would probably need ketamine. I’ve had to scrap not only the itinerary that had been all worked out and prepped for before civil unrest made it impossible for us to continue with our previous plans, I’m having to rework all of the school-ish kind of stuff I had outlined for Benny’s portfolio, Sadie’s stuff, as well as just all the research I had done trying to help Lev wrap his head around what might have been useful to include with the film he was going to take. I suppose I could complain if I wanted to be a diva about it all. Thank goodness the idea makes me nauseous.

Time to turn things on their head. This was a good day when it could have been a disaster due to the sudden itinerary change. There’s already a new plan in place. Tomorrow we will do the Lake District (a repeat but apparently necessary since the film taken needed some retakes), except this time come back to London for the night again. The 15th is something called the West End which seems to have Sadie all excited. We did the East End, now we’ll do the West End.

The 16th and 17th are an in-depth walk around all day in London. One of those evenings I must make time to take Sadie to a Solicitor’s office (name for a type of British lawyer) to pick up (pick through?) some crates of things found in one of the other London houses to determine if they are hers or not and if so, what she wants done with them. I’m also to sign some papers. I asked if they needed Lev’s signature, and while they took his digitally, at least one of us has to be there to provide a physical, in-person signature. I’ll bring Benny with us this time and Lev will have true peace and quiet to package up some more of the editing because we’ll move out of London after that, only coming back to London in the evenings to this hotel. I believe the first stop is York; things are still being reshuffled until the 24th. The 25th is when we are supposed to head back to Ireland, assuming the riots don’t spread. Depending we may also be staying here until then.

Not what you would call a budget location unless your budget is similar to the Wight Family’s. And in fact, this location is thanks to them. We do have an assignment to complete. We’re to compare this location to the others where we’ve stayed.

I’ll tell you right off the bat that despite the heebies of staying in a play with this kind of price tag, I like it better. Color schemes are warmer or something like that. I don’t feel frozen and afraid of knocking stuff over either. Windows in the suite we are in are really big and what’s on the other side of them is pretty cool as well. Views of the river and the ginormous Farris wheel thingie, and you just feel part of what’s going on around you without having to be down in the middle of it.

Okay, definitely time to hit the hay. I’m getting goofy.


[1] https://www.hrp.org.uk/hampton-court-palace/#gs.it6egs
 

Kathy in FL

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Oct 14 - Day 32 Lake District (2) from London by Rail​


Lots of time on a train today. Over six hours when you count going and coming from London to Oxenholme in the Lake District and back. Time put to good use by everyone however. Lev got some editing done. Benny and Sadie did some “school” and worked on their book. I worked on the itinerary and generally tried to salvage what I could from my previous research.

A driver picked us up early at the hotel and took us to Euston Station. We took off at 5:30 am and arrived at 8:42 on the dot. We were met by a driver and we discovered we were actually part of a small group tour. This was a different itinerary than we had with the Asian couples that created the issues. I know Lev wasn’t happy with that day’s shoot and frankly I was willing to go along with the re-do so long as it meant he got what he wanted in the can.

The tour started in Windermere and then headed towards the Langdale Valley. On route to the Langdale valley we drove along the famous Lake Windermere and the guide shared a lot of stories about the national park.

Next stop was Hawkshead, a medieval-era village full of narrow alleys and squares. It is home to a grammar school which was established back in 1585 and where the famous English poet, William Wordsworth went to school. Overlooking the village on a hill, we saw St Michael and All Angels Church, that has been there since the 16th century. We spent a short time … really short time … walking around and saw the Hawkshead Relish Company. Yeah, I grabbed some as Pei’s thank you for handling some of our stuff stateside.

Then it was off to Bowness-on-Windermere, a town in South Lakeland area. Due to its position on the banks of Windermere, the town has become a tourist honeypot, or so the guide called it. We had a cream tea experience at the Lindeth Howe Country Hotel, once owned by Beatrix Potter. She’s the lady that wrote all of the children’s books and even I and Benny knew who she was.

Next up? Tarn Hows. We took in the bodacious scenery before hitting the town. Tarn Hows is another one of the Lake District's “hidden gems”. We were told it has been the inspiration for many artists and writers and Lev nodded like he understood why.once you visit, you will understand why. Benny and Sadie were making quick notes and I have a feeling it is going to be used as scenery in their book at some point.

Last real activity of the day was taking a forty-five minute scenic cruise on Lake Windemere. I could definitely get behind that and had fun learning the ins and outs of the necessary training required to operate boats on that water.

Our guide made sure that everyone got back to the train on time and boarded in the correct car. The train ride back seemed to go quicker than the morning had, maybe because I had enough work to occupy my time and keep the hamster on the straight and narrow.

It was actually thanks to the hamster going “squirrel!” that I spotted one of the older set (sisters) that had been on our tour group. They looked lost and in a bit of distress. Lev nodded when I explained and asked him to keep an eye on the kids while I made sure nothing needed sorting out. Apparently the car and driver they’d hired didn’t show and the number they’d been given was out of service. Easy enough to deal with ‘cause I was not leaving the two of them wandering Euston station on their own. We shared a taxi with them and got them to their hotel. Their gratitude was a little embarrassing but hey, they were Grandmother’s age and well … I was raised better, you know?

I made sure to help them inside and I quietly spoke with the concierge and explained the situation. He said he’d notify the tour leaders they were part of. We’re back in the Savoy after a long day. Benny and Sadie are crashed … or should I say crashing as they are basically just relaxing and on their way to sleep. Lev is out of the shower – he let me go first – and now wants me to come to bed so he can do something with the wound up rodent that doesn’t want to turn loose. Yeah, I’m all over that.
 

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Oct 15 - Day 33 London & West End Delights​


The morning was basically ours to do with as we would. Oh geez, I’m starting to sound like our blasted tour guides, all proper English and stuff. Ugh. Need to get over myself. Let me get through all of this and maybe a good night’s sleep will help.
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Last night, after Lev and I did one more review of the itinerary changes we decided to take today off to deal with the changes and take time to clean up the details. I let the kids sleep in. I let Lev sleep in. I had planned on sleeping in but, nope, didn’t happen. Instead, I took the living room between the bedrooms and did some quiet exercising to try as I watched the view through the window, and deal with the aftermath of the email I made the mistake of reading last night.

Well, mistake is the wrong word. Townzen had sent a note that he’d caught someone(s) nosing around my online info. I still have an account with the online reputation company but Townzen also does it because that’s what Townzen does when you are part of his world. At first, he’d thought it was my cousin, she still holds a grudge. Imagine me with a surprise face … not. However, after quietly taking a looksee, it was someone more along the lines of a professional investigator. Only upon further investigation, the investigator turned out to be a lowlife kind of professional. At that point Townzen felt free to release the hounds. He tied it up with ribbons and bows and handed me the info. No biggie to him, definitely a biggie to me. Instead of letting me thank him, he asked if the trackers were still performing to spec and if I’d run into any location gaps. I responded that not even in the middle of Dartmoor National Park but that I was going to specifically test them at Dover Castle and let him know. He’s all over that one. Wants to test them in the tunnels if we are able.

I’ll give you three guesses who didn’t cover their tracks as well as they thought and the first two don’t count. Can we say Beaumont? Lev was furious. Going after him professionally is one thing but he took what they were trying to do to me very personally. Because through me they can also take a swipe at Benny and Sadie who are minors. I immediately informed Mr. Dutton and what had been done to address the situation. I was surprised by a quick reply. “Handle at your discretion. Your Mr. Townzen sounds more than capable. However, do not be afraid to ask for assistance should it become necessary. And not just for Ms. Wight.” The end. Ugh. On the one hand I’m thankful for the confidence he put in me. On the other hand? OMG. The hamster took a while to settle down and stop pinging off the inside of my skull.

We also sent an email to Tommi with the info (and proof) that Townzen had put together to be forwarded to the production company’s lawyers. Lev was still angry but doing something about it at least made it so he could sleep.

I woke up to a response from Tommi who was surprisingly serious.

“I’ll get this to the lawyers asap Gus. They are definitely breaking the contracted agreement that was come to last time they took a shot at the Production Company, and this will fall under that I’m sure. Just do us all a favor and try to keep Lev focused. I know what that sounds like, but he needs to show confidence and not give them any where-there’s-smoke-there’s-fire for them to take advantage of and spook the investors again. I’m going to run this one up to Bob to see if he has any insight on what if anything I should do. Those bad boys are too damn persistent for this just to be a matter of chasing the dollars out there. They’re making it personal.”

Yes, yes they are. And they better hope they know when to stop because Townzen and I are a damn good team when we have a target. I just don’t want to go there if it can be dealt with on a less destructive playing field.

I was in the middle of finishing my last cool down rep when the rest of the crew tumbled in wondering if someone’s alarm clock hadn’t gone off.

I said, “Nope. Everyone needed a lie in.”

“Er … Babe?”

I looked at the three of them staring at me and made a face. “Look, I’m just trying some self-improvement in the mouth department.”

It was Sadie that snickered and draped her arm around me and said, “Don’t try so hard. We like you the way you are.”

“Well, I need a shower. Soon as that’s taken care of, I’ll rustle everyone up some chow.” I know I was laying it on thick. They knew I was laying it on thick. Family stuff. For us it works. Or at least it works for now.

We took a short walk to a nearby food location for brunch recommended by the a hotel staff member when I asked for quick, budget options and walked there and back in the “fresh air”. Temp was just shy of 60F but it was cloudy and “smoggy”. Got back to the hotel to blow my nose and … yuck. Had no idea how much air pollution their really was. Here’s hoping my nose is all that is getting caked with disgusting air particles.

For the remainder of the morning and into late afternoon we each did what needed doing. Laundry, uniform maintenance, school, portfolio, notes, editing, yada, yada, yada. To be honest Lev could have used a few days off but he said, “They’ll get it when I’m satisfied with it.” Alrighty then.

It was the evening when we picked back up our normally scheduled activities. This evening we ate at a West End restaurant followed by an evening at the theater. We saw a revival of Agatha Christie’s The Mousetrap. I won’t spoil the plot for those that haven’t seen it but it’s … twisty, especially at the end. The play first opened in 1952 and has been running on the West End ever since. In other words, it is the longest run of a play in the world with over 30,000 performances.

An now we are back in our hotel suite and everyone else is asleep. Lev was going to wait up for me but the editing took it out of him today. I’m finally … eh, I don’t know what I finally am. I guess I’ve found my flexibility again and there’s nothing I can do about the Beaumont situation. I guess I wish I knew what their issue is. They don’t need to make things personal. Are they just that angry that Lev won’t play their game? Is it some kind of pride issue? Are they the type that don’t care how, so long as they do, win? But what does winning mean in this instance? None of it makes good sense. Something else has to be at stake.
 

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Oct 16 - Day 34 A Day in London​


Joined a new group. I think we could handle London on our own now with enough planning but this isn’t so bad. A little repetitive but there was also new stuff as well. After an Underground Tube orientation, we played follow-the-leader and went by City of Westminster. We took in Buckingham Palace – no going in as the royals were in residence – walked through St. James Park, nearly got attacked by cranky pelicans (don’t ask, I’m saving the story for the blog), and then on to Westminster Abbey where we had a guided tour. The Abbey is where England's kings and queens have been crowned and buried since 1066. Yeah, it’s old. After the Abbey (no interior pictures allowed) the walking tour continued along Whitehall.

Lunch was the quintessentially English experience known as afternoon tea. And yes, I used a thesaurus to find that particular word. Sue me. Sadie had some fun trying not to laugh at the tourists oohing and aahing over the experience. I will admit that watching them stick their little finger out was kinda funny for some reason. One lady looked at me like I was a neanderthal for holding my cup with both hands. She’s just lucky I didn’t let the hamster control the situation because I was dying to slurp and see how she reacted. I could tell Lev was just waiting for me to do it but I figure, best not to become too predictable.

The group headed on to the British Museum but we cut loose and headed back to the hotel early. Lev had a conference call and Sadie and I had an appointment with some “dainties” that needed attention.

Everything was going well until I finished folding and took the room service we’d decided was better than leaving the room again.

# # # # #

“Babe?” Lev asked, coming out of his conference call with a decidedly worried look on his face.

“Something wrong?” I asked cautiously.

“Er … I got us another job offer.”

That was a surprise I hadn’t expected. “They haven’t even seen this one yet. It’s nowhere near in the can. It isn’t because of the Beaumont mess is it? Because Townzen has them a little tied up with stuff and Tommi said the investor was fully back on board. Something about seeing through the Beaumont’s tactics whatever that is supposed to mean.”

Lev was jittery. “Definitely not the Beaumonts. Bob was part of the conference call and he confirmed that the production company’s lawyers were already on things and to tell you that Townzen knows his stuff.”

“I know Townzen knows his stuff, and so does he.”

“They also want to know if those trackers can be put on equipment and if so they wanna introduction. They’ve had a few pieces of expensive equipment go missing the last two months.”

“I’ll take care of it. But back to whatever has you upset.”

Lev shook his head. “I’m not upset. Some investors were shown some stuff and they saw our old stuff … all the way back to Florida.”

“And?”

“And they want a multi-season deal.”

Only sorta understanding what he meant I asked, “What’s a multi-season deal?” I wanted to make sure before I opened my mouth and the way he swallowed and the look on his face before he answered me did more to clue me in than simple words ever could.

“They are talking three seasons. Repackaging the stuff from Alaska and Hawaii and etc. Possibly with flashbacks from Florida.”

Getting a little worried I asked, “Why are you so green around the gills?”

“Because … Yeezus Gus. This is a huge deal. Huge. And Mr. Wight has already agreed. He’s the one that sent the investors our way. Apparently Sadie’s brothers were doing a little research on us but on the backend instead of the front. This would open up some international doors I only dreamed about when I first started.”

“I’ll think about that later,” I told him. “But, in the simplest terms, what you’re saying is it means we have a job after the UK assignment is over?”

“Gus …”

“They don’t want us? Only you?”

“Gus …”

I finally stopped and let him find the words because I was getting too busy keeping the hamster from turning psycho.

“Babe, come sit down for a sec. I can’t talk to you when you start pacing at the speed of light.”

“Lev …”

He knew he’d reached the end of the leash on the hamster and explained.

# # # # #

After feeding me more details he said cautiously, “Look, I know it means not going back to the River House for a while yet.”

Trying to not pass out from lack of oxygen I said, “We weren’t going to go back until the beginning of November.”

“Yeah, but you were already complaining that it is the middle of October, and you have a lot of work to do on the place when we got back.”

Denying it I said, “I wasn’t complaining. I was stating a fact. I need to get a third bedroom arranged for Sadie. The place is a mess. You need the upstairs loft turned into your office or studio or whatever we wind up calling it. All of that is going to cost time and money. However …”

“However?” This time he was even more cautious.

I said, “However it doesn’t have to happen until we get back to the River House. And if George’s offer is still good on acting as the contractor on the inside issues, and they stay out of Grandfather Barry’s man cave where the van is parked and all the stuff we have in that concrete floor safe … thank you Creator I took the extra time and put it up on blocks and drained all the fluids so it could be mothballed … then …” I finally looked at him and asked, “This is the job you’ve always wanted isn’t it?” I already knew the answer to that.

“Babe … this is a freaking dream. It could really catapult us into amazing things.”

Trying to stay realistic I said, “It could also leave us right where we are now. Taking job by job.”

“But it is a chance. And it means that we can provide for a family … and we can not …”

“Not have a bio kid?”

He shook his head. “Not that. I really wasn’t thinking that. More … there’s Benny. We know he’s going to need us a while longer than you initially thought. It isn’t the academics. It’s …”

“He’s sensitive and I don’t know how, or necessarily want, to train him out of it, but teach him boundaries and coping skills.” Nearly quoting verbatim what Pei had told me I added, “As a result, he’s going to stay younger, longer. He’s more mature than his peers in some areas and less socially mature in several others. After taking him to the clinic where Pei works, she said that his life with us is pretty much his best life, an amazing life full of opportunities. He gets to experience a lot of things and amazing situations without being overwhelmed and torn apart by people, including his peers, who could circumvent his progress even if it is unintentional.”

“Yeah. And I’m not disappointed in that either,” Lev said. “We’d discussed it plenty … making sure we were doing right by Benny. There’s nothing wrong with him. Smart beyond smart even with the dyslexia because he continues to learn work arounds. But there are parts of his personality that are delayed.” Lev added, “This means we can give him as long as it takes. Financially, all of it. Even if that means at some point he needs more training than we can give him. I mean I don’t think that is going to happen … but just in case. It means that we don’t have to bust into his money from Lawrence. I can help with that, and Lawrence can … er … be the one … I mean …”

I sat beside him and took his hand. “If you are wondering or might ever wonder … trust me on this … Lawrence would be glad if he couldn’t be the one around that it is us. He trained me for a lot of things in life. Part of me understands he was also trying to help me not make the decision he made with Penny. Penny even taught me stuff … some intentionally, most not. If you are trying to be the father figure that Lawrence can’t be around to be? That’s a good thing. And so is the fact that you are being a man about it and thinking about things besides your emotions and how to meet your needs first. More, you are trying to be a leader … our Admiral … and think about the big picture that we all make.”

Lev just stared at me. “How do you always know? Understand?” Lev asked, needing the kind of reassurance that Penny never gave Lawrence, that Dad lost when my mother died, and that took nearly a lifetime for Grandfather Barry to find in Grandma Barry.

I gave as simple an explanation as I could. “Same way you’ve always gotten me, understood about the hamster, even all the way back to Florida. Have I ever told you that even that first day, I knew that you got Benny in a way that Rick didn’t? That very first meeting where we were sitting around figuring out how to shake out with no time to do it in.”

“No,” he said in disbelief.

“I’m serious. I don’t think Rick meant to be insulting when it came to our schedules … no days off and Benny’s schooling … but he was. And the look on your face, like you were offended on our behalf. I just didn’t know what it meant then. Wasn’t ready for it. But I’ve been all in since Saipan. Before then really but that was the day I finally let myself believe in it. That was when we committed to it all, told the world we were all in with each other and Benny. Now we’ve added Sadie to that, and I know how you feel … how important it is to be different and give them different than you had and to give them more training so they can have the kind of security that kept getting ripped from beneath me.”

“Babe …”

“And now, I want you to know that I’m all in for this as well. We’ve talked about it. About being a traveling family. The River House is our base of operations. Where we go between assignments. Maybe for a long time to wait things out going on in the world, or a short time to give you time to wrap up and get things in the can and prep for the next assignment.”

“But the River House is your home.”

“The River House is a base of operations,” I repeated. “You are my home. Benny will one day grow up. Sadie will grow out of needing us the way she does now. Maybe we have a bio kid, maybe we don’t. When all of that happens, you will still be my home and maybe the River House stays our base of operations or maybe we have a different one. That is too far down the trek for me to worry about unless you want the hamster doing the macarena.”

“Uh, nope.”

“Good. Because guess what?”

“What?”

“They have their own room, and they are asleep.”

“They … oh. They have their own room. Ha!”

“Race you to the shower for some celebrating.”

“Lady I love the way you think.”
 
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