No, I'm not anything special. Not any more than anyone else. Way I look at it, I'm the lucky one. And I work every day to earn continued "luck". I try to do for her what I'd want done for me if the shoe wound up on the other foot. From day one of our knowing each other, she has done what she can to 'earn her keep'. When the kids were still at home, she and the kids had supper on the table dependably. House was straight and clothes were washed and folded. She homeschooled the kids and they all grew up to be successful adults with good work ethics and senses of right & wrong and being responsible. When the kids all flew the coop, she now rarely has supper ready for the table, but she has all the prep work done and supper lined out for me to cook. I take no credit for the menu....can't even take credit for the baked goods as she's the arbiter of when things go in and come out LOL.
The important thing is, she has her strengths, and knows what they are and uses them, and NEVER begs off of something because "I can't..." or something like that. I promised her when I proposed, 'you do what you can, and I'll do the rest'. She's lived up to her part, and so I am honor bound to live up to my part.
I feel like we're threadjacking. Sorry, Kathy.