ADMIN Sniping and nasty exchanges on the forum - FF to post 324

Bob the Builder

Contributing Member
Ohboy.....mama used to get after us with a fly swatter too. One day I did a reach around for self preservation and grabbed it accidental like out of her hand totally by accident. Yep that's my story. Couldn't bring myself to give it back.
When dad got home I wished I had.
Still wasn't as bad as Ivory soap mouthwash though when talking out of your lane.
 

TFergeson

Non Solum Simul Stare
Thanks Mill.

This place is too valuable for that. I understand people get heated, and things happen, but the trends are the concern. The worst outcome is that people do not post information or do not debate because of what they expirienced or think they will expirience here. That is why I come to TB. For a sweet sweet bit of actual academic debate and assessment from both sides of an issue. We have no other refuge.
 

packyderms_wife

Neither here nor there.
Ever since Whataburger sold out to an investment company from up North, it turned into garbage even faster than expected.

I heard that, they were here locally in certain HyVee’s and most are gone now less than three years later. I tried it once and for the money wil” stick with Burger King.
 

Sid Vicious

Veteran Member
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Seeker22

Has No Life - Lives on TB
I own a TV because I prefer to watch movies on BluRay with no adverts. Most times when I can actually have time for myself, I knit and in the evenings, I read. I never intended to come off as holier than thou by stating these things. Just my life and what works for me. A lot of people think a comment is directed towards them in anger or because the poster is holier than thou. Why? Lotsa peeps with their stinger out.

I remember a time in the not too distant past when we all were a loving supportive Family.
That we are at each other's throats tells me something is fixing to blow sideways. Millwright has too much on his plate right now to have to do this.
 

Kathy in FL

Administrator
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Every single one of us is under a lot of stress. Some more than others and this includes the Mods. Let's cut everyone, ourselves included, some slack and think a few times before we hit that reply button. If there is a poster in particular that is trying to put your boobs in the wringer then put them on ignore. They could be trolls, they could be know-it-all's, they could just be super stressed out without the coping skills to deal with it.

I'm not looking for a kinder, gentler TB2K ... ain't happening. What we don't need is to descend to the level of some former members that are no longer amongst us because they liked to get people's panties in a knot.

Breathe in, exhale. Breathe in, exhale. Then exercise your freedom to hit the ignore button. You can always take them off ignore later, or even temporarily to see whether they are still chapping you in uncomfortable places.
 

Tristan

Has No Life - Lives on TB
Usually of geological origins. I'm seeing the uptick in sniping on FB and twatter as well... oh and the holier than thou I don't eat fast food, I don't own or watch tv, or I don't have a social media account also needs to come to an end. If it wasn't for us junk food eating, news watching, social media lurking trolls, members here wouldn't know half of what's going on out there!


Life's full of choices!

;)
 
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I posted this on another thread, but it needs to be seen by everybody.

Take heed.






Ya know....

This has been an increasing trend around here.

Thread drifts (fairly normal thing) turning into nasty exchanges with personal jabs.

It's going to stop.


I understand that there is a huge amount of tension in the world right now AND we tend to see most of it...in real time.

There have been several instances where the bickering has been directed to TIO. Some peeps seem to forget this.

We (staff) have enough crap going on in our own lives and don't need to be spending time babysitting a bunch of butt-hurt & sniping.

If you have an issue with someone, start a thread in TIO and send or post a link to whoever.


Failure to do this will result in the Bounce button being applied, with prejudice.
There is someone here who I think does not like me. They have openly attacked me. I am wondering if they sent me a nasty personal email so I have refused to check the mail as I am sensitive and don't want any more stress. I have 4 un opened email. I don't need to be put down again. I won't open them. I have never attacked any one here and am nice to everyone. Sorry, but I just can't bear opening the mail. I've been called certifiably nuts.
 

Millwright

Knuckle Dragger
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There is someone here who I think does not like me. They have openly attacked me. I am wondering if they sent me a nasty personal email so I have refused to check the mail as I am sensitive and don't want any more stress. I have 4 un opened email. I don't need to be put down again. I won't open them. I have never attacked any one here and am nice to everyone. Sorry, but I just can't bear opening the mail. I've been called certifiably nuts.

You should use the "Report" function for posts like that.

I don't think there is any way for another member to get your email in this software. In the old software, IIRC, there was an option for "send email" but they didn't actually see your address.
 
There is someone here who I think does not like me. They have openly attacked me. I am wondering if they sent me a nasty personal email so I have refused to check the mail as I am sensitive and don't want any more stress. I have 4 un opened email. I don't need to be put down again. I won't open them. I have never attacked any one here and am nice to everyone. Sorry, but I just can't bear opening the mail. I've been called certifiably nuts.
I will now stop reading this thread in case that person says something hurtful to me.
 

ShadowMan

Designated Grumpy Old Fart
...and we had to pick our own switch from the back yard and.....

Yep....my Mom did that to me and my younger brother. Sent us out for a "switch".....we brought back a LOG. She grabbed us each by the ear in a Ninja move and dragged our arses across the yard to the WILLOW tree and TAUGHT us what the proper size of a Willow Switch was and then we proceeded to DANCE around the back yard while she went RAMBO on us. OUCH!! That memory STILL HURTS and leaves a mark!

Oh growing up back in the day BEFORE time outs!! Sweeeeeet (painful) memories!

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SpokaneMan

Veteran Member
I've already had to do one bounce in another thread.

Any more bullshit and it will be straight to the cooler.

I'm sick of this crap.
Sorry Millwright. You are probably referencing me. The only thing I did was facetiously call another male member a hooker. I forgot the laughing smiley. But then again he was ratted out as a mole. I didn't mean any disrespect to anyone else here.
 

Millwright

Knuckle Dragger
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Sorry Millwright. You are probably referencing me. The only thing I did was facetiously call another male member a hooker. I forgot the laughing smiley. But then again he was ratted out as a mole. I didn't mean any disrespect to anyone else here.

Nope

Regardless, don't drag arguments like that into my thread.

That is exactly what I'm talking about.

If you got the red ass at someone, invite them to TIO, settle it there...and leave it there. No hair pulling.

Got it?
 
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