What do you buy for $35 that gets you through an entire week?? I'm truly interested.
I was at a casino restaurant and there was a table of Blacks next to us. When they left the table, floor and chairs looked like a herd of hogs had eaten there there was food all over the table, floor and chairs plus spilled drinks and they didn't tip either.
Doing this equity garbage is a great way for restaurants to go out of business and I hope they do.
"Studies have also shown that there is inequity and built-in bias in the way consumers give tips,” the statement reads. “In general, Black or Brown servers receive less tips than Caucasian servers. There is gender bias as well.” "
You can make studies say what you want.
Wow, anyone who has ever worked in the service industry knows that blacks are the worst tippers!
That‘s if they even tip at all! A server getting a table filled with them has usually just drawn the short straw.
I no longer eat at restaurants of any kind. Too easy for cooks and servers to cough/spit on the food accidently or otherwise.
I prefer my cooking.
If they has simply raised prices, there would be no politics here, simply economic demands required higher prices.
But they went woke, they had to make it political, that changes the whole nature of the issue.
Okay all this is TMI I guess but perhaps it may be of interest to others.......
"Studies have also shown that there is inequity and built-in bias in the way consumers give tips,” the statement reads. “In general, Black or Brown servers receive less tips than Caucasian servers. There is gender bias as well.” "
You can make studies say what you want.
Even one year of college for one employee would mean selling a LOT of coupon books!!Waitaminnit... it doesn't sound like the company is offering "free college". It sounds like they are essentially begging for *their customers* to pony up to pay for the employees "free" college!
Summerthyme
“Studies have also shown that there is inequity and built-in bias in the way consumers give tips,” the statement reads. “In general, Black or Brown servers receive less tips than Caucasian servers. There is gender bias as well.”
A new study finds many waiters and waitresses feel that black Americans generally tip less than restaurant diners who are white. The study, by a researcher at Cornell University's School of Hotel Administration, found that blacks tip on average 20 percent less than whites.
Meals........two a day. (I have so much fiber in the meals they keep me full and am never hungry in the middle of the day nor at night)
Breakfast 6am.............6 scambled eggs.........2 full cups of plain whole oats in water (chilled in the freezer first) not cooked.............with 1 whole red delicious apple sliced up into the oats.
Mid Afternoon around 2-4pm 2nd meal.............plate with a pound of frozen veggies (lots of mixed colors and variety) mixed with cooked brown rice ...........and a 8-10 oz chicken breast with two sliced up roma tomotoes.......(sometimes I use honey mustard on it)
.............or the same plate of food but instead of the chicken breast.
....a 12 oz cup of Cottage Cheese....
.....or a 6 oz can of water pack tuna.....
.....or a 32 oz of cup of plain yogurt.
I drink only water..........
My big savings are I don't eat red meat................and I don't drink anything but water
I really don't snack at all but if I did it is usually oats with apples and maybe some added raisins and raw nuts......(sometimes that might be a 3nd meal but very rarely do I do that)
Basically I eat two meals a day and often will switch them around...........or mix and match the protein/carbos....
Example........The goal for each meal from my weight training is to get a good animal source of protein/fat.........by selecting .either eggs, chicken, cottage cheese or yogurt...........and then a good source of complex carbos in fiber/nutrients with either a combo of oats with fruit ..........or veggies with brown rice..........
So I have 14 meals a week normally and most of this food is dirt cheap and I buy the generic brand (Walmart Great Value) as well.
My grocery bill weekly is 25 to 40 bucks and averages about 35 bucks a week at most.
Of course some people would see eating like this as living in a diet prison........but I find it very satisfying with no cravings between meals because of the fiber/roughage really keeps digestion on the right track and sense of fullness with no sugar imbalance cravings and all the metabolic diseases that come with simple sugar/no fiber processed food diets............
Interesting enough I've experimented with eating junk or normal craving /comfort foods in my diet and the only thing I get out of that is an addiction to wanting to eat more of it to the point where I day dream about eating that all day..............and I also get a lousy feeling when my stomach is full...........unwanted fat gains..........bad skin breakouts........ and poor digestion/elimination..........not to mention what would happen to my health if I ate that way my whole life.
So staying clean with my diet makes me feel great good and with my weight training look good to the point where it becomes its own impetus to continue doing so .......not to mention that I save a fortune.
I bring both meals to work everyday..............as a result I save 10 to 15 dollars a day from not ordering a lunch or something to bring in mornings........that compared to my cost for my meals being about $1.50 to $2.50 a meal.................that averages out to about $60 a week in savings or over $3,000 a year.........so if I eat like that in 6 to 8 years I have saved enough money by brining my own food to work to have bought a new car (20K) Chevy Cruze by avoiding any ordering of food where I work.........
Okay all this is TMI I guess but perhaps it may be of interest to others.......
Blah blah blah. I’m perfectly fine paying the extra, for the reasons outlined above. But in my world, that IS the tip. But after paying, I’d make sure the server was apprised of why no “separate” tip, and then the manager. Further, I’d tell them I won’t be back, ever, because I’d be afraid of them contaminating my meal. Then give the facility a one-star Yelp rating with full explanation.This supplement helps us to set a $16 minimum hourly wage for customer facing employees, $18 minimum hourly wage for kitchen employees… Altogether this allows everyone in our company to earn a real living wage. The 15% Benefits & Equity Charge is not a gratuity.”
Thank you so much for taking the time to explain. You're truly disciplined and yes, that diet saves you a bundle of $. You don't find it boring or rigid? Never spaghetti, seafood or other options? And 32 oz of yogurt in one sitting? Good golly, I'd explode! Lol.Meals........two a day. (I have so much fiber in the meals they keep me full and am never hungry in the middle of the day nor at night)
Breakfast 6am.............6 scambled eggs.........2 full cups of plain whole oats in water (chilled in the freezer first) not cooked.............with 1 whole red delicious apple sliced up into the oats.
Mid Afternoon around 2-4pm 2nd meal.............plate with a pound of frozen veggies (lots of mixed colors and variety) mixed with cooked brown rice ...........and a 8-10 oz chicken breast with two sliced up roma tomotoes.......(sometimes I use honey mustard on it)
.............or the same plate of food but instead of the chicken breast.
....a 12 oz cup of Cottage Cheese....
.....or a 6 oz can of water pack tuna.....
.....or a 32 oz of cup of plain yogurt.
I drink only water..........
My big savings are I don't eat red meat................and I don't drink anything but water
I really don't snack at all but if I did it is usually oats with apples and maybe some added raisins and raw nuts......(sometimes that might be a 3nd meal but very rarely do I do that)
Basically I eat two meals a day and often will switch them around...........or mix and match the protein/carbos....
Example........The goal for each meal from my weight training is to get a good animal source of protein/fat.........by selecting .either eggs, chicken, cottage cheese or yogurt...........and then a good source of complex carbos in fiber/nutrients with either a combo of oats with fruit ..........or veggies with brown rice..........
So I have 14 meals a week normally and most of this food is dirt cheap and I buy the generic brand (Walmart Great Value) as well.
My grocery bill weekly is 25 to 40 bucks and averages about 35 bucks a week at most.
Of course some people would see eating like this as living in a diet prison........but I find it very satisfying with no cravings between meals because of the fiber/roughage really keeps digestion on the right track and sense of fullness with no sugar imbalance cravings and all the metabolic diseases that come with simple sugar/no fiber processed food diets............
Interesting enough I've experimented with eating junk or normal craving /comfort foods in my diet and the only thing I get out of that is an addiction to wanting to eat more of it to the point where I day dream about eating that all day..............and I also get a lousy feeling when my stomach is full...........unwanted fat gains..........bad skin breakouts........ and poor digestion/elimination..........not to mention what would happen to my health if I ate that way my whole life.
So staying clean with my diet makes me feel great good and with my weight training look good to the point where it becomes its own impetus to continue doing so .......not to mention that I save a fortune.
I bring both meals to work everyday..............as a result I save 10 to 15 dollars a day from not ordering a lunch or something to bring in mornings........that compared to my cost for my meals being about $1.50 to $2.50 a meal.................that averages out to about $60 a week in savings or over $3,000 a year.........so if I eat like that in 6 to 8 years I have saved enough money by brining my own food to work to have bought a new car (20K) Chevy Cruze by avoiding any ordering of food where I work.........
Okay all this is TMI I guess but perhaps it may be of interest to others.......
Thank you so much for taking the time to explain. You're truly disciplined and yes, that diet saves you a bundle of $. You don't find it boring or rigid? Never spaghetti, seafood or other options? And 32 oz of yogurt in one sitting? Good golly, I'd explode! Lol.
Again, thank you. I admire you for your dedication.
Go woke, go broke. The DW is traveling there next week for a family event. I forwarded this to her, they just lost out on a party of 10.
There is gender rainbow hair color bias as well.” "
If they has simply raised prices, there would be no politics here, simply economic demands required higher prices.
But they went woke, they had to make it political, that changes the whole nature of the issue.
Frankly I think they're idiots for doing things the way they did.
I applaud you! Too many men couldn't whip up more than a bologna sandwich, or won't. Those who say "it's cheaper to fix a meal at home" or "we haven't eaten at a restaurant in months" are rarely the one doing the daily planning and cooking, and rarely does it dawn on them that the wife really does need a break from it. Kudos to you!Errrrr....
There is inequity in leaving tips ... but of course they twist it into something else
The Tipping Divide
A new study finds that African Americans generally tip their waiters less than white diners, often because blacks are less familiar with the custom of tipping 15 to 20 percent. And restaurant workers of all races dislike waiting on black people because they assume the tips will be less, NPR's...www.npr.org
Plus...
I've heard many through the years that say that younger black groups at restaurants are much more demanding, make a much bigger mess and are generally a pain in the ass to serve.
We almost never go out to eat unless it is through a drive up or pick up just because there are so few local restaurants left in our AO. We have to travel to the edges of our AO to larger towns and then you get into the Chains. The food is overpriced and frankly most of it is just fair at best.
There isn't much I can't cook well and my family always wants Dad to make it instead of going out.
And I know of an example of a low life that did just that and bragged about it. This took place in the 70's, the guy was a cook and bragged about "hawking up herman luggies" and spitting them on the burgers. He had a good ending though, became a severe alcoholic and whacked himself.I no longer eat at restaurants of any kind. Too easy for cooks and servers to cough/spit on the food accidently or otherwise.
I prefer my cooking.
Restaurants died during covid. You CAN make better food at home and it won't be junk Gordon's delivery truck food. Any restaurant doing this social crap is going to be dead soon. The good old days are long gone. Communism is here. My wife and I note the following going out to eat: 1) prices have increased by at least 25%. 2) menus are bare bones now with at least 30% of menu items gone. 3) fewer patrons at restaurants. (it ain't just covid related) 4) the food isn't as good as it used to be because they have cut corners. 5) portion sizes are much smaller. (case and point. we went out recently and had fish and chips at a local place. they are famous for them. what we got was 2 dollars more expensive and half the portion size of what you used to get.) Yep. You can do better at home. TONS better.We never eat at restaurants anyway. Who can afford to in this day and age? For a $50 meal we can buy food to make several meals at home. A friend took us out to eat a few months ago, our first time eating out in over two years, and treated us. The food was awful and overpriced. I know there are people who eat out regularly, but this seems like restaurant suicide to me. Let them charge that fee, I say. Let them cater to those who have the disposable income to waste that kind of money. The rest of us who are wiser could care less.
Free to the employees. And hopefully free to the business too after it sells a bunch of coupon books.
Wow, anyone who has ever worked in the service industry knows that blacks are the worst tippers!
That‘s if they even tip at all! A server getting a table filled with them has usually just drawn the short straw.
The company will be out the cost of the food less the price for coupons when the customers use the coupons to purchase food.
The customer gets a good deal on the food, the workers get an opportunity to go to college and the owner of restaurant is able to help his employees and his customers. Good for all.
Texican....
that is how it will be 'hid' in the future...... we wont be able to tell if it is white tax, inflation or what ....the only ones that will know are the employees who may or probably wont make more......If they want to change things, they can pay their servers proper wages and calculate that into the cost of business, rather than just … this.
So you're eating the eat like a bear diet plan. I have a couple of friends who are doing this, and have lost a considerable amount of weight and have actually gained muscle in spite of the fact that they do not exercise.
That (one and only) time a few months ago when we went out to eat we had such a mediocre waitress. She was about 24 and had blue hair, and you could tell she was one of those follower types that just did whatever the crowd did. It wasn’t that she was exceptionally terrible meeting our needs (although she wasn’t great), but she was just so apathetic. She did not engage us in any personal talk, did not ask us any questions about why were we out, or if it was a special occasion. We made it clear it was our first time eating there and she didn’t even mention it, and she rattled off her “suggestions” as if they were fully scripted. My hubby tried to ask her about school, what she wanted to do, but she just giggled and kept saying, “Right? Right?” It was bizarre, to be honest. Back when I waitresses in the early 90s, all of us knew that the key to getting good tips was to engage your tables and really give them a tailored experiences based on their mood and the vibes they were giving off. For a table like ours, I would have handled it a hundred times differently.
So it’s not just bad, expensive food, but it’s blah, disinterested, self-centered blue haired liners waitstaff as well. No thanks.
If they want to change things, they can pay their servers proper wages and calculate that into the cost of business, rather than just … this.
Simple solution - DON'T EAT OUT. EAT AT HOME !!!
If you want atmosphere, have a drink, turn down the lights, turn up the stereo. Enjoy the food YOU fix, and enjoy your
family !!!
FortifiedAnd when I was in basic a gentleman of color (guess which color) got caught making a deposit in the bread dough while choking his chicken. In that era people with extreme low IQ's were drafted, and this person was most likely of that sort too.
Later on I recall seeing a whole barracks full of these people. They worked in supply with the specialty of being manual cargo handlers. They even looked and acted like a box of rocks. For all practical purposes, and being serious, they were mentally disabled. The DoD had a draftee program back then where they purposely drafted low IQ people for the war, and I believe those folks were some of them.Fortified
Probably the only pokin’ he was gonna get.