FOOD Food Backpacks Help Kids in Need

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Food Backpacks Help Kids in Need


BOB GREENE
, CNN
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(Nov. 22) -- Every Friday afternoon, the backpacks are placed carefully on the floors of the hallways in the elementary schools of Moberly, Mo.
There are 106 of them: 106 backpacks, each of them with no child's name and with no individual owner.
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Moberly School District
Hungry elementary school students in Moberly, Mo., who might not eat much between lunch on Friday and breakfast at school on Monday take home backpacks full of food.



The backpacks tell a story that can both break your heart and make your heart swell with admiration.
And if you ever had any doubt about what the financial mess in the United States is doing to families across the country ...
Well, those 106 backpacks in Moberly will erase those doubts pretty quickly.
"We're a rural community," said Mark Penny, the superintendent of the Moberly Public Schools. "We're pretty much in the middle of the state."
The backpacks are there because Penny and his staff know that without them, the children for whom they are intended might go hungry between the last bell of the day Friday and the first bell Monday morning.
The backpacks -- property of the school -- are filled with food.
The idea is that, when those 106 children leave class on Friday afternoons, they will pick up the backpacks, sling them over their shoulders and casually walk out of the school with their classmates.
The idea is that the children who need the food -- they range in age from kindergartners to fifth-graders -- will blend in with the hundreds of other boys and girls who get enough to eat at home and that the 106 children will feel no stigma.
"We serve breakfast at school, and we serve lunch," said Francine Nichols, the school staff member in charge of the backpack project. "But we began to realize that some of these children go home to houses where they literally may not eat over the weekend. And we couldn't just sit back and not do anything to help them."
So, three years ago, the backpack program started. When the school senses that a child is chronically hungry -- "A lot of times, they just tell their teacher," superintendent Penny said -- the parents are contacted. If the parents are willing to accept the help, the children are told privately that a backpack will be waiting in the hallway Friday afternoon.
"We'll fill each backpack with soup, with ravioli in a can, with canned fruit, with cereal bars, with juice," Francine Nichols said. "We make sure that the food is the kind that a young child can prepare himself or herself, if need be. Because some of these children live in single-parent homes, and when that parent works, not only does it mean that there may not be enough food in the house, but there may not be anyone to fix the meal for the boy or girl."
Moberly is far from the only school district in the country to have a program like this. Quietly, they exist all over the nation. The first one that is often cited was organized in the 1990s by a hunger-relief group known as the Arkansas Rice Depot.
The weekend-food programs are not run by the federal government but by local communities that simply can't stand the idea of children going without enough food.
And in Moberly, the need has increased in the past year, with the national recession and high unemployment.
"The economy has not exactly been a blessing to families lately," Nichols said. "Last November, we had 34 children for whom we prepared the backpacks every Friday. This November it is 106. So that tells you something."
There are some weeks, she said, when she goes to the school storeroom to fill the backpacks, "and I don't know how there will be enough food."
Much of it is provided by the Central Missouri Food Bank in Columbia, 30 miles away. That agency's executive director, Peggy Kirkpatrick, said that one year in one town -- not Moberly -- a 9-year-old boy took a backpack of food home each Friday but admitted to his teacher that he wasn't eating it all. When the teacher asked him why, the boy said:
"Because Christmas vacation is coming."
He was saving the food. He was hoarding it, because he wanted to make it last over the two weeks away from school.
But in Moberly, Francine Nichols said, some parents whose children have been helped by the backpack program contact the school when they have found work again and say that because they are back on their feet, they no longer need the assistance. "And then they begin to provide food for the program; they bring food to school to help other children," Nichols said.
 

Amazed

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I don't know what to say. I think the school is doing a wonderful thing but it breaks my heart to think of these kids going hungry. I just don't see that kind of poverty in my area. That's a program I would do everything in my power to support. Just think of that poor little guy hoarding food for the vacation coming up. He sounds like a little prepper in the making, to me.
 

CelticRose

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I don't know what to say. I think the school is doing a wonderful thing but it breaks my heart to think of these kids going hungry. I just don't see that kind of poverty in my area. That's a program I would do everything in my power to support. Just think of that poor little guy hoarding food for the vacation coming up. He sounds like a little prepper in the making, to me.

Sometimes you don't see the hunger, not because it doesn't exist, but because some are just so used to it, they've learned how to hide it. Some kids won't tell you when they're hungry either because they're afraid of 'getting their family in trouble' or because they've bee conditioned to not let anyone on the outside, know what goes on at home. Sometimes borne of pride, sometimes borne of shame............

But the backpacks of food are wonderful...... The kids can have something over the weekend and not be singled out as 'one of hte poor kids', by their peers......... ANd I agree, the one poor fella has the makings of a prepper in him ........ But it's also a sign of a child who knows more about the sadness of life, than any child should have to know, that young .........
 

naturallysweet

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where is child protective services

Where is child protective services in all this? I know that many families are struggling, but for a child to not eat all weekend, is child abuse. With foodstamps, soup kitchens, food pantries, private charities, and easily availability of food: what excuse could any parent have to not feed their child 7 meals in a row?

I don't say this to be mean, or to deny the suffering that's out there. I grew up with stories from my mother's childhood. How she was abused, neglected, and starved by her parents, who were drug and alcohol abusers. She would have loved to have a backpack with food, but she NEEDED the intervention that never came to save her from the fate of being raised by drug abusers.
 

CelticRose

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Where is child protective services in all this? I know that many families are struggling, but for a child to not eat all weekend, is child abuse. With foodstamps, soup kitchens, food pantries, private charities, and easily availability of food: what excuse could any parent have to not feed their child 7 meals in a row?

I don't say this to be mean, or to deny the suffering that's out there. I grew up with stories from my mother's childhood. How she was abused, neglected, and starved by her parents, who were drug and alcohol abusers. She would have loved to have a backpack with food, but she NEEDED the intervention that never came to save her from the fate of being raised by drug abusers.

Where is child protective services in all this? I know that many families are struggling, but for a child to not eat all weekend, is child abuse. With foodstamps, soup kitchens, food pantries, private charities, and easily availability of food: what excuse could any parent have to not feed their child 7 meals in a row?

I don't say this to be mean, or to deny the suffering that's out there. I grew up with stories from my mother's childhood. How she was abused, neglected, and starved by her parents, who were drug and alcohol abusers. She would have loved to have a backpack with food, but she NEEDED the intervention that never came to save her from the fate of being raised by drug abusers.

I agree, there are cases where CPS needs to intervene, but ..........

In some cases the lack of sufficient food isn't due to drug or alcohol abuse of willfull neglect or abuse by the parent(s) / adults in the childs life.

In some case, the reality is that money has always been tight and when the economy tanks, it's only that much harder for them.

And in some cases, it's a matter of pride. Folks who have always worked hard and tried to do their best to take care of their family and themselves, simply aren't inclined to admit they need help. And how many of us haven't known or seen folks who are just making do, basically hanging on by a thread, YET, they won't seek help because they know others who are even worse off?

When things were at their worst when I was a little child, I remember who 'good times' where when both my mother and I would eat and as the money grew tighter, a meal might be bread dipped in the 'drippin's' can' and fried and worse was when I'd get that and my mom would fix a cup of coffee (made from grounds she'd save and use over) ........ As a little child I didn't understand why she did this, as I grew older I knew why she did this.

But we didn't think of asking for help until she got really sick and it was TB. Which meant she couldn't work in food service (back then you needed a 'health card' and TB voided that card) ...... Then it was whatever we could scrape together from her working cleaning motel rooms and me helping (I was too young to legally work) and our taking in laundry......... When she finally decided that we 'really needed' some help, she didn't like having to ask for a commodity box, but it was like a bounty, to me ........

She wasn't being mean or neglectful: she was afraid of letting anyone know how bad it was and also, she had her own demons to deal with and that added to her fears ..........

When my husband and I did a lot of community work when we lived in CA, we knew that the Christmas party we helped put on for the children in our community, was as much about the kids having one special day for them, just to be a kid and laugh and see Santa, as it was about making sure they had a good meal and that somehow they got a hoodie or sneakers that they needed ......... In that time and place, yes, too may of the parents were druggies or drunks and CPS only intervened when the neglect was 'extreme' ........ Not right, but that's the way it was; right or not .........

No child, nor one, should ever go hungry. But for some, hunger has always been part of their life ........ And doing more with less or getting by with little or nothing, is all they've known ........ And that sometimes makes it harder to admit that they simply need help........
 
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