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Nuns with Guns
On Wed I was 'forced', coerced, pressured to sign a paper I did not agree with. I put (under duress) next to my signature.
What legal effect does that statement have on my signature?
A little history on what and why I signed it. I don't want to say too much because this is public.
Wed at about 1:30 2 women came to my house, they were from DCF (state dept of harassment of families) about my nearly 18 y/o son. He'll be 18 in 98 days for crying out loud!! He has been causing a lot of trouble in our home and he chose to move his room into what we call the barn behind our house. It's more of a basement to a barn and was the local post office and had stores in it. So it's not really a barn.
Anyway these social workers insisted on seeing where he lived and I asked them to read the complaint, anonymous of course...nothing in it was accurate and I was disgusted so as I walked away from then I told them I would not talk to them until my husband was here. This is a very important point, you need as many people on your side as they have, one to stay with each invader. I stayed with the female and my husband stayed with the man.
They gave me their card and said they'd be back next week.
Well, 7:30 that night we were invaded by 2 cops and 2 workers and there was a back up cop next store.
They INSISTED on seeing where my son lives, I asked if they need a supena (sp) cop said ,no dcf can go any where any time to see to the safety of a 'child'.
Long story short, DH and I took them to his room they saw that the lies about no heat, no food etc were just that. After about half an hour they left.
Well, an hour later, it's about 9:30 now, the 2 workers were BACK! All nicey nice this time. Against my better judgment I let them in and we talked in my dining room. They were sent back to get me and DH to sign the forms stating what THEY want US to do and THEY will be doing. Like complete investigation, assess safety, CONDUCT HOME VISITS, refer to services as needed. I have a younger daughter (almost 17) who I don't want them to harass or take.
There was NO WAY I wanted to sign that form and I told them so, many times. She kept threatening me, you know, sweet talk about lawyers, daily visits etc and my husband just signaled me to sign the damned forms to get rid of them. Ironically they FORGOT to get his signature, I guess I gave then such a hard time.
This is were I caved into the intense pressure and signed it but must have been inspired because I put (under duress) next to my signature.
I am hoping and praying that that will negate my signature. I am looking into getting a lawyer but wanted a little comfort (if possible) from a legal person here telling me that I did the right thing.
Get ready everyone with children! If this happened to ME it could happen to you, and it's not going to get better in the future!
I feel like I was raped.
Thanks for any insight here.
What legal effect does that statement have on my signature?
A little history on what and why I signed it. I don't want to say too much because this is public.
Wed at about 1:30 2 women came to my house, they were from DCF (state dept of harassment of families) about my nearly 18 y/o son. He'll be 18 in 98 days for crying out loud!! He has been causing a lot of trouble in our home and he chose to move his room into what we call the barn behind our house. It's more of a basement to a barn and was the local post office and had stores in it. So it's not really a barn.
Anyway these social workers insisted on seeing where he lived and I asked them to read the complaint, anonymous of course...nothing in it was accurate and I was disgusted so as I walked away from then I told them I would not talk to them until my husband was here. This is a very important point, you need as many people on your side as they have, one to stay with each invader. I stayed with the female and my husband stayed with the man.
They gave me their card and said they'd be back next week.
Well, 7:30 that night we were invaded by 2 cops and 2 workers and there was a back up cop next store.
They INSISTED on seeing where my son lives, I asked if they need a supena (sp) cop said ,no dcf can go any where any time to see to the safety of a 'child'. Long story short, DH and I took them to his room they saw that the lies about no heat, no food etc were just that. After about half an hour they left.
Well, an hour later, it's about 9:30 now, the 2 workers were BACK! All nicey nice this time. Against my better judgment I let them in and we talked in my dining room. They were sent back to get me and DH to sign the forms stating what THEY want US to do and THEY will be doing. Like complete investigation, assess safety, CONDUCT HOME VISITS, refer to services as needed. I have a younger daughter (almost 17) who I don't want them to harass or take.
There was NO WAY I wanted to sign that form and I told them so, many times. She kept threatening me, you know, sweet talk about lawyers, daily visits etc and my husband just signaled me to sign the damned forms to get rid of them. Ironically they FORGOT to get his signature, I guess I gave then such a hard time.
This is were I caved into the intense pressure and signed it but must have been inspired because I put (under duress) next to my signature.
I am hoping and praying that that will negate my signature. I am looking into getting a lawyer but wanted a little comfort (if possible) from a legal person here telling me that I did the right thing.
Get ready everyone with children! If this happened to ME it could happen to you, and it's not going to get better in the future!
I feel like I was raped.
Thanks for any insight here.
get him off your property ASAP



