HEALTH What next?

tm1439m

Veteran Member
My father in law fell at Christmas and broke his hip. He went from the hospital to the rest home during Christmas where he still remains.

My mother in law had COPD and it was bad so she also ended up in the rest home with the father in law within a few weeks of his entry. It took some finagling but we were able to get them into the same room. The COPD got real bad in the last few days and last night she struggled to breath for hours before giving up this morning. I knew she was going. Everybody else had the impression it would be a while. They all saw heavy breathing. I saw a struggle to bring air in with no expansion of the lungs. You do not live long without air. Convinced my wife I was right so she spent the night and was there for her. She is glad of that and this may have saved me from the meal I will mention later in this post. Will be burying her Tuesday.

My mother fell dancing at 70 years old right after the first of the year. Broke her bones under her right shoulder blade. Two steel plates and a bunch of screws are holding her together. She is a tough old cookie. They wanted her to lay around for about six months. Instead she was back out dancing about 3 weeks later despite the pain in her back shoulder area. She said if I do what they say I will never recover because I am to old to loose that much time from moving around. She is doing well but very limited in motion on the bad side. She still works and they gave her the go ahead months early because she insisted on getting back at it.

My wife had a gall bladder attack several weeks ago. I thought it was gas and told her to lay down a while and she would be OK. Ended up she had a very very sick gall bladder that was removed and was full of stones. They said it was one of the worst they have seen. If anyone could please give me some advice on how to prepare crow it would definitely be appreciated and I am not looking forward to the meal. She was sent home and became in far more pain than before the surgery. Took her back to the hospital. After tests and more probing and tests it was determined she had a blockage in the tube running from her liver to her stomach. After another surgery and a total of 5 days in the hospital we finally made it home with her now feeling better than she has in a few years.

Recently my brother fell about 20 feet and landed on his foot which is now broken/shattered and severely damaged. Not sure yet what the outcome will be but the prognosis for his foot is very bad. Time will tell depending on how well his old tired body can recover.

My son has been doing lots of exercise lately and been sweating a lot. He is a beast and very healthy however this morning while at the rest home just after my mother in law died he had a very bad spell. He has depleted his potassium and electrolytes over the last few weeks. He about past out and has been weak all day. He will be fine but you always worry about your kids.

We have a wedding scheduled to do video for tomorrow. 6 hours and it is outside in the hot sun all day for us. We really have no choice. These people are counting on us to capture this special time for them and we can not let them down. However if it comes down to it I will be going it alone and give it to them for a huge discount. My son is drinking lots of fluids and pedialyte.

We have been setting up the funeral today as well.

I will let you know if things get any worse.
 

tm1439m

Veteran Member
Forgot to mention that all 3 cell phones and our home phone have been ringing off the hook all day.
 

magnetic1

Veteran Member
ouch, yeah, you had better be very, very sweet and helpful and be bringing lots of her favorites to her for a while.

Kudus to your Mom. Sounds like one great, wise Lady.

I am wishing you well for tomorrow!
 

Kaydee

Veteran Member
Sounds like you've had a really long lousy month. Prayers for your MIL and family.

Start hydrating yourself for tomorrow as well! Find an air conditioned spot to get out of the heat, and maybe leave son there except for when you need to switch out? Take a cooler of your own cool drinks and gatorade/pedialyte, have a fan, use wet cloths on the back of your neck (keep soaking in the cooler) and wear a good hat.

Not much meat on a crow, dress it out and parboil the breast, thighs and drumsticks. Cover in a bit of BBQ sauce and it will be a small snack.
 

Hansa44

Justine Case
Please don't eat a crow. They are messengers if we pay attention.

Your family seems to be paying off a lot of karma and this is good, even tho' it may look negative. It's not. It's tying up loose ends. You probably wouldn't want these things to happen as we get closer to all hell breaking loose.

Sounds like your MIL was called home before tshtf.

Take care of yourself in the heat. It's a witch. :)
 

summerthyme

Administrator
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Praying. BTDT...

Some of this is just "normal"- as hard as it is to lose an elderly parent, it happens. Some of the other stuff... well, we've personally experienced spiritual attacks before, and the signs look familiar. You might want to spend some time asking God for His protection from the evil one, and rebuking Satan specifically in prayer.

We'll be praying for you!

Summerthyme
 

Norma

Veteran Member
TM1439M, it sounds like you have had way more than your fair share. My condolances for the loss of your MIL, prayers for your whole family at this time. Prayers for you and your son that it all works out tomorrow and you both don't get over heated and it all goes well. Remember God doesn't give us anymore than we can bear.

Take care and God Bless!

Norma
 

Deena in GA

Administrator
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Will be praying for all of you! And, yes, you should be taking in plenty of liquid and electrolytes too, in order to be ready for tomorrow.
 

Walrus Whisperer

Hope in chains...
Please don't eat a crow. They are messengers if we pay attention.

Your family seems to be paying off a lot of karma and this is good, even tho' it may look negative. It's not. It's tying up loose ends. You probably wouldn't want these things to happen as we get closer to all hell breaking loose.
Sounds like your MIL was called home before tshtf.
Take care of yourself in the heat. It's a witch. :)

Thats whats been going on.

All I gotta say is DO NOT ask "What Next" the adversary just loves fulfilling that request.
 

Ben Sunday

Has No Life - Lives on TB
I agree with WW above. Never ask what is next. Simply not a smart idea in your terribly burdened condition right now.

Everyone reacts differently to physical and emotional stress. With older folks (70 +) it can be really difficult. BTDT with my own parents ( both 80) and several close friends.

Common sense dictates that you take it easy at the wedding. Stay hydrated. Make an effort to find some shade now and then. Take care of yourself so you can continue helping those who are counting on you.

Sending along good wishes for you and yours.
 

landofahs

Inactive
I have saying: one day is never like another day that gets me through.
God gives us the advice to not worry over the future. So, just place the situations that you know of in His hands and don't ask what's next if might show up.

God bless you and your family,

Landofahs
 

Amazed

Does too have a life!
Unfortunately rough times often come all at once. The only way through is through. My condolences on the loss of your MIL. Thank goodness your wife is feeling phsically better now so she can cope with the loss of her mom. Prayers that health returns to your family.
 
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